Ok, I called this female friend of mine today. She had to leave the house shortly after I called, which was 6:00. She said she'd call me back later. She sounded good and everything.

I was out of the house after that pretty much, until like 9:40. I checked our call log, and she hadn't called. My family said she didn't, too. Then I logged online and she was there. I started talking to her, just normal stuff. She talked good and all. Then before she left shes like "oh and i'll call you tomorrow so we can talk about saturday" (which is why i called her in the first place). I was wondering why she hadn't called me before, after she got home from leaving the house, but before 9:40. Think it means something bad? Or did she just not think to call or something....??? I mean, she did mention again online that she would call, if she didn't want to call me she probably just would have said bye or something like normal when she had to leave.

So is this good, bad, or not good or bad and just IS?

Your making it a bigger deal than it needs to be. This is what I would do; if she said she would call you all you can do is go on her word. But don't wait around at all. Instead do something that is fun to you to get your mind off of it like...flirting with another girl or playing ball with your boys-whatever makes your day. You can make other plans for Saturday as well just incase the plans with her fall through. Then if they don't, you can break the other plans. Your stressing something that you shouldn't be. I hope this helps.

Dude you need to stop givin us a minute-by-minute of your day. I mean it's hella intriguing following this harrowing tale of how you're obsessing over a single female that has probably put you in teh friend zone already but we don't need to hear it. Honestly.

Now as for an answer, i'd bet she's already over you. You're psycho obsessing over the minute details and this is the hugest turn-off to a chick. My bet is she's already picked up on this and is no longer intersted or never was. Move on dude.

Be a man and you be the one to initiate the contact, even when they say they will call. I've learned the hard way. First of all, do whatever is possible to NOT have to be calling and confirming at the last minute. Take the ititiative and LEAD the way. You're a man dammit!!!

Just is

U are worry'N too much read my sig.

Not to put negative thoughts in your head, but just in the past few months, "I'll call you later/back" were the last words I heard from two different chicks.

Both of them would say that, and I'd end up calling a few days later. Well, I got tired of it and haven't...It's been since January that the last one said she'd call me back...Not taking any more of that BS.

NEXT !!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by Reto
Not to put negative thoughts in your head, but just in the past few months, "I'll call you later/back" were the last words I heard from two different chicks.

Both of them would say that, and I'd end up calling a few days later. Well, I got tired of it and haven't...It's been since January that the last one said she'd call me back...Not taking any more of that BS.

NEXT !!!!!!!!!!

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