I'm talking to 3 different girls right now and I swear if I only could have met them all 3 months apart from eachother in the last year or something that would be perfect. But, such is life. When it rains it pours. And I'm sure this is a learning experience waiting to happen.

I'm pretty much just barely getting to know all 3 of them:

-1st girl I've had lunch with only once as we've had conflicting schedules (but she introduced herself to me so there's gotta be somewhat of a high IL)

-2nd I went out with once and made out a little bit, but haven't been sweating her at all (which BTW not calling her for a week I think had a positive effect)

-3rd girl I've hung out with once without being in a larger group of people, but haven't put any moves on yet (subject of my other recent post)

Girl 2 seems somewhat straight laced and like the type that wouldn't want to have sex without being in a relationship (she prevented me from advancing to 2nd base on first date which was lame). Girl 1 and 2 I don't really see as serious long term relationship material, and Girl 3 I think I'd be down with having an exclusive relationship with.

But my question is, how do you handle dating 3 different girls? I guess it's a good problem to have, but how do you sex them all without it backfiring in your face? How do you smoothly tell a girl, "I don't want to be in a relationship with you at all, but I would love to sex you repeatedly and make you squeal in extacy"

Is it possible?? It's gotta be! But it's also gotta be very easy to mess it up

dating multiple girls isn't a problem if you have time since your not exclusive w/ any of them everything's still in your hands. if your not looking for a relationship, make sure you let her know your intentions that you just wanna have fun. just let her know in your conversations, im sure the topic will come up, like she asks you what u like in a girl or some general questions about relationships, just have a few statements in there telling her that in this stage of you life, u just wanna to enjoy life and have fun and that your not ready for a comited relationship, if she's cool with it then u know she's someone that u can sex repeatedly w/o any strings.

Dating 3 girls is not going to be a problem unless they are each looking for an exclusive relationship. Women are not stupid. They seem to have a sixth sense that will tell them that you are seeing other women. If they sense this and are in a serious relationship mode, they will get all jealous and possessive that in turn will cause you headaches.

Just last week, I was on a movie date with this girl when another girl I am seeing calls me on the cell. Naturally I don't pickup. Later on after I dropped off the other chick I check my messages and I hear: "I see that you are probably at the movies with your GF so I will not bother you. Call me when you have the chance."

My jaw almost dropped because she correctly guessed that I was wth another girl watching a movie. No, she was not stalking me. She was at her house all the time.

Then there is the financial aspect of dating. These days dating just one female can get expensive. Three can be prohibitive.

If they are just casual dates with no strings attached, then its great dating multiple women. You just have to make it clear up front that you are not looking for anything serious.

word, good shtuff