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My gf sees our relationship seriously! Help!

dayvidaims

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Well I'm a lot of years in that site and I know pretty much how to handle every situation but this is really getting me nervous...

I think that my gf (for 2 weeks now) sees me seriously and syaing thinks that she wants to keep that relationship.

Well she is great and I like her a lot but I'm not ready for a LTR right now and moreover after summer I am leaving for college and I want to be free there to do what ever I want there.

Well some story about my gf and me... We've met 2 years ago at summer and she was normally leaving 300 km from me I was seing her only for 20 days per summer. Firstly we were just friends but not seeing her too often helped us not to get on the friendzone. Well now she came again for the summer and here we are as couple. But she scares the **** out of me when she talks about our relationship. She is trying to get to a college near me and so....!!!!

Today I decided to bring her the message that i'm generally not looking for something serious. i told her (lie) that with all my gfs on the past we broke up when we were still on top because of the current situation. I also asked her about her relationships in general and I told her to try not to get in love too esay. (I think that she thought i don't like her that much which is not true-I just want't to make something serious right now..

(Although she got just a little angry we are still together and I just feel releaved that i made her think of us not beinf forever.

Do you think i handled it well? What else could/can I do?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Reto

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That's tough. But, better to let her down easy and keep things casual...

I think you did ok...
 

Bonhomme

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You did good

Keeping options open is generally wise.

Best to state your case without burning any brideges. Perhaps you will eventually want a relationship -- later.

Communication is a good thing.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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