any ideas for a night out lets say a 5th date.... We have done all the basics.. pool, mini golf, movies, bowling, a night of crusing around in a classic car... I need some other ideas of what to do problem is she is 17, im 19 and she doesnt have an id to get into 18+ nightclubs and junk which isnt all that big of a deal. I would reccomend just renting a movie and watching it at home yet I wont have any privacy with my whole familly and I dont want to make it seem that it is essential we watch it at her house. Any suggestions of what I can do for a nice quiet evening, its getting to the point where we have been friends and its turning into something more where we are enjoying one anothers company that I dont feel it needs to be something extravagant or cost alot of $ while going out.

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it pretty much depends on HOW far you've gone on the previous 4 dates..i think a lot of guys on here would agree that if she has high IL and you guys have kissed/made out already, then you should go for all the goods on the 5th date.

more info is needed bro

-HQ

Just make sure it's memorable and original. That's the best way.

We have a couple of fifties style diners around here that I LOVE going to. It's different, I don't do it too often, so it's more special.

Trickster guy's list of things to do for not too much money provided you can get a date...

Go race go carts around a track... racing little cars is FUN. especially with competition.

picnics are cheap...

Going on a walk/Bike ride. (We have a really cool park and fitness trail right by each other.)

Old time arcades

Outdoor carnivals.

Museums

Fireworks (especially around now)

Concerts.
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I hope this gave you some ideas.

I believe in only 1 to 2 dates, max 3 dates, then its just fu@king and more fu@king.

May I suggest spending the night in? Do something for her that all woman believe is a myth: cook her a nice meal. Of course most of us aren't culinary masters, so you could always buy a nice meal and present it as if you cooked it yourself. Unplug your phone and clean your house, if you have a fireplace use it.(Just crank up the Air Conditioning to make the house a little cooler of course.) Have pleasant music playing, and trust your instincts as the evening progresses. No need to have dinner at the dinner table, why not have it in front of the fire place. May I suggest you find a very soft, blanket to lay down in front of the fire so that the two of you could cuddle up in afterward and close the evening with sex in front of the fire place.(Be considerate and bring a pillow to, just in case she has to bite down on something.)

-Grey Fox

Get her alone at your house, her house, or a friend's house.

It's about time you guys got close.