“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The ex called last night

Avsguy01

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Never in my life would i have thought this to happen......here it goes. My ex from two years ago(i broke it off with her) called me last night and left a message. She has had sex one time in her life before me and she said it wasnt complete intercourse, just partially so she sorta considered her self a virgin still which i disagreed with her but anyway....... In all the time we were going out we never had sex. She was the one that wanted to wait for marriage to have sex again. Eventually i managed to break it off....that was way back in my true AFC days. Point blank....didnt get any and actually she was the closest i came to getting some too. So here i am still a virgin today and i get a message from her last night. She said she had just had sex and really enjoyed it. She then said she thinks she is a nympho. I was like whooaa!! So i called her back and it is the truth and she says she wants to take my viginity away. Plus i told her straight up that there will be no strings attached. She is totally cool with it. She wants to be Fvck buddies!! Boy this just seems too good to be true but i dont think she is playing with me. Weve been friends since the break up and she called me alot and i was always my ****y and funny self over the phone and never really called her. She always called me. She owes me some pu$$y, since i never got any from her when we went out a while back. What do you guys think about this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dude - it sounds like you just hit the lotto so you better cash in your ticket before you lose it.
 

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when will I get a phone call like that?!

Better strike while the iron's hot, otherwise she may change her mind!
 

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Okay in this case i told her to call me, do i call her if she doesnt get back with me in a few days? I figured i would need to be right on it. Keeping in contact with her.
 
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do you see her in person regularly? If so, when you next see her, ask her about it.

Wait for 3 days or so and see if she calls. If after 3 days she still doesn't call, I'd call her. But don't act like you really really want it (even if you really really do). You have to act interested (you don't have to act, you ARE interested), but just don't come across as desperate for it when you call her. At least this is what I'd do. It's an awful feeling that something is within reach but you haven't got it yet...
 

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davelmn2003 is right. Don't act desperate by a seeming too interested. Once you loose your cool, its over. You must keep a calm agression. Stay on top of the situation, but dont' loose your cool, you're that close.

The key is to have the attitude like "I want to fvck you, but I don't want to fvck you that bad."
 

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Thanks guys, I think I have this situation in hand now :) Wish me luck for the sake of it!!

P.S. No i do not see her in person regularly
 

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Update....I still have a grasp of the situation.......4th of July just might be the big day!!! Keep cool and "I dont care attitude"
 
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