Hi all,

Right theres this girl who im (nearly) with. Ive known her for about 2 weeks and last night she broke up with her bf (apparently for me - she sent a text msg saying that shed break up with him if i liked her enough and that she really wanted to be with me).

Anyway my AFC tendencies are kicking in e.g. wanting to meet her every night, texting her constantly, and so on.

On the plus side - she knows ive a few girls "on the go" and ive used the C/F approach to make her think this (which worked excellently I mite add). She told me last night that she really likes me but shes not sure if i like her and that she didnt want to share me with any of the other girls. I said ill see...

Anyway she now wants me to go to the Eminem concert with her this friday (hes playing in dublin). The thing is I dont like concerts and dont really wanna go.

Im meeting her for a drink later.

Any advice on how to break my AFC tendencies (i know all about being a challenge but the feeling i have for this chick, whos a 9 to me, is so strong that i cant seem to help myself) and do u think i should go with her to the concert?

Thanks.

Any advice?

Just practice what people here "preach".

Don't see/call her every night. Let her call you, and keep the conv short. Step back and pretend you have a life. (That is if you don't).

As far as the concert, who is paying? If you don't want to go, tell her you don't have the money. Concerts can be expensive.

Hi reto.

Thanks for that.

Well, she has the tickets already and she asked me last night "if i knew ne1 wanting to go to the concert" - think she was hinting at me going with her coz she doesnt know any of my friends.

I said what if i went with you and she replied saying that the ticket would be free then.

Go to the Eminem concert, you'll at least have a good time laughin' at some of the behaviour. Use it for entertainment purposes. Plus its a free ticket, most likely, and you can tell other girls about it, and use it for conversation purposes, a lot of babes like that guy.

Yes, nock it off with the texting, lately there have been many posts that contain the words AFC and text messaging in them. Not a coincidence.

What is the problem? Do you like her a lot? You gotta seize the moment, sounds like she's at a boiling point, take advangate of it, otherwise the temperature will decrease, and it might become a friend only situation, and you'll be here asking for different kind of advice, along with posts on being afc and text messaging.

Why don't you get very physical, as far as you can get, after that you are in charge, because they are more willing to get into something more serious. Once you are a "friend" its harder to become a lover.