“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you fluff talk at parties\clubs?

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I think I've got all the tools necessary to be a master DJ except for fluff talk. I'm solid on conversation when it comes to getting to know a person such as where they are from, their name, job\school, etc. But, when I get to know them, I have a hard time commenting and talking at parties and clubs. I just don't know what to say and I fear I'll be boring because all I can think of to talk about is the same stuff like school and crap.

Does anybody have any tips or point me in the right direction?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Start chattin' up guys at parties and clubs to hone your fluff talk skills, then migrate to UG chicks then towards the better looking ones.
 

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Be careful with the fluff talk. She may pre judge you as being another "nice guy."
 

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guess I didn't make it clear....I need convo topics for a girl who I already know fairly well so I won't be talking about the basics u know? And, its hard to talk in the club, but I gotta say some fun and sexy stuff.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Talk about their hobbies and stuff they like to do for fun. Chicks love talking about themselves and also any conversations on travelling or their ideal guy. If they are wearing something interesting then start a conversation on that, ask her where she knows her friends from and how the know the host of the party. But the best openers are ones that are original and interesting so ask her opinion on something.

If she asks questions about you then never give a direct answer (i prefer the c&f bull**** approach) and try to keep it short. Keep the conversation flowing nicely by directing the conversation at tangents to what is being discussed and remember to make a point in the conversation. Dont just dribble on, your prime motive for the conversation is to develop rapport and gain attraction so stir up some emotions and feelings.
 

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unless ther girl is a b1tch then you can use misunderstandings.
they are fun and generally get her on the defensive, laughing, and not bored.

example
If she gets a weird drink, tell her you had heard that only lesbians drink that.
If she is dressed super nice, ask her if she is going to the prom

stuff like that
 
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