Hi Don Juans,

I'm the one out of Germany. I need some help of you. I have been a really shy guy what women concern. But the last weeks i'm feeling getting. And day for day im feeling power in me in self confidence getting greater. The fear is not really away but its getting smaller !

So because this evening i am fealing real good at myself and i want to go tommorow to swimming pool. And when im reading a book or doing something else i want to take eye contact with some girls. (which i have done yet some times before) But this time i want to go a step on and approach to one of this girls. But now my question what should i talk to her. What is my first sentence. And how long shoul I Talk ? Should i talk some sentences with here and then go to swimming pool and swim a little bit. please give me some advice. what would you do to get a girl that she interests in yourself ?

Sorry for my bad english.

Your german Student.

Jack

How about Hi, my name's jack03, what yours?

Never fails

ok i will do that and after that i could ask something like:

- where she is from ?
- if she studies or go to school....
...

should i talk a little bit to her goto swimming pool, lay back on the grass and look to her. is there something i can do specially ?

Ask her:

1) Do you come here often?

2) Haven't we met before?

3) What's your sign?

4) I bet you already have a boyfriend.

5) Would it be ok if I asked you for your phone number?

6) Whats a beautiful young lady like you doing here without a man?

7) I bet you're good at lickin' stamps!


Haha.

Anyway, no, just get her talking about herself, and just SHUT UP AND LISTEN, nodding your head, following along, until she runs out of steam, then follow up, stay on the same topic if you can, that way it doesn't sound like a 20 question canned presentation. Once you've established rapport, she will start warming up more and hopefully start asking you some questions.

Jack, what are women like in Germany? I might be getting a job there when I leave college. I hear the women in Germany can be cold...like quiet and a little mean. What do you think?