this is the best i can explain. i have a hot girlfriend that i like alot. i can get girls. i have a nice car and good family. yet there is something missing. i have narrowed it down to the girls in my life. my girlfriend, or should i say girls in general. i think i just over react but i always feel like there is something missing or to best put it, it feels like im going to lose that person (my girlfriend). everytime i hang up the phone i feel like she doesnt like me or is there something shes not telling me. even all the way down to her away message , i know it sounds stupid but to be honest i even get worried if it doesnt say my name in it, like i will call you later _____.im not sure what i want to hear from you guys but anything would help.

It seems to me like you are basing your happiness on girls or having one. What you need to do is pick up some hobbies or stuff you can do that you enjoy. For me it is playing my Guitar. Riding my Bike around. Stuff like that. Once you stop making girls a priority you should be happier.

ur insecure

the way i feel about girls and girlfriends is that if you arent happy without a girl then you truly willnot be hapy with them.

society tells us that we need a mate and to some degree that is true

but at the age that you are at you shoudnt even need a girl to be truly

i think that even if u truly got what you "wanted" that you would not be happy.

it seems as if you are saying that you want your life to revolve around her. Everythng shes says and writes should be about you.

but most importantly you feel that she i better than you are and that you depend on her. chances are that she will start to acknowledge it and not appreciate it.

You need to start feelin better about yourself. What do you think that is missing in your life?

hobbies, friends, popularity(which i hope itd not), heck even religion?

thats up to you to find out

but as soon as you do, and you start to change your GF willbe worried bout losing U!

Before you can truly be happy with a girl, you have to be happy with yourself. You can't look for a girl to make you happy, not really. You have to get your happiness from something within you. I'm most happy when I'm playing the sax or guitar, therefore I play often and the girls like it too. Find something (other than a girl) to make you happy. Then, and only then, will you truly be happy with a girl.