if a woman is a virgin without asking? I just started seeing this girl last week and things are going pretty damn well in most areas. Thing is shes really nervous about all the physical stuff, and as Im a fairly patient fellow its not really bothering me as of yet. Im just starting to wonder if she doesnt have much experience and Im intimidating her or what.

Im sorta lost here guys, need info.

Just start discussing sexual experiences and see if she joins in. She might just admit she's a virgin outright.

Originally posted by Kwah
if a woman is a virgin without asking? I just started seeing this girl last week and things are going pretty damn well in most areas. Thing is shes really nervous about all the physical stuff, and as Im a fairly patient fellow its not really bothering me as of yet. Im just starting to wonder if she doesnt have much experience and Im intimidating her or what.

Im sorta lost here guys, need info.

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Get a Acme Virgin - o - meter. (Product # 521946854b- 4267895x.) Luckily it's small, you can hide it somewhere in the room. Just make sure it's near a power outlet, and not near anything with fire. Now if you're in a different country, you might need an adapter of some sort. It also luckily comes with a wireless earphone, so you plug it in (make sure the wireless device is hooked up correctly, in the right plug.)

Then, start making out with the girl. The device will go off like Michael Moore at the Oscars (or a buffet).

Heh heh.

The only other way to truthfully know is to have sex with her. And even then it's tricky sometimes to tell.

Wait till you guys are both comforatable discussing sex, then ask her. Maybe she'll be lying, maybe not.

There could be a million and one reasons why she's uncomforatable right now, so don't take it personal.

Oh Im not to worried about it. I just dont want to seem like a sex huingry pervert to a sweet innocent(hehe) girl.

Im just not used to uncertainty from women so its throwing me for a loop.

just at some point, when its the right moment, say, "im curious, how many men have you been with before?"

act all kind and compassionate, like you arent going to judge her. she will probably tell you.