Sup-

I dig this chick. Let me try to give the short. I asked this girl her number out of the blue, she says no but seem attracted. The month that followed she came into where I worked, asked me questions and flirted. I was always funny and ****y, seemed she liked it. So I rallied basically, didn't want to go for the # because she seemed so standoffish. Anyway, got the email.

I emailed her about a week ago. It was light, funny. Told her I was going away. Never got an email. I'm all about meeting new women (just so ya know), but don't want to give up so easily. Should I ask her what's up straight out in another email? See what's going on and why so shy? Or should I just keep teasing her or whatever, play it funny? She seems shy (she's super hot) and I want to hook up.

Any advice is cool.

Under normal circumstances it sound like she's politly hinting and you should back off.
But if she's really all that hot , then yeah , fcucken go for it!
What have you got to lose?

Yeah, I feel I have nothing to lose. I want to see why she is so disinterested/interested. Yeah...

You should e-mail her with

"What's the matter ? playing Hard to get already ?"

And leave it at that. If she dont reply then dont contact her again.

Originally posted by matius
I asked this girl her number out of the blue, she says no but seem attracted.

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Did you notice the contradiction in this sentence?

I emailed her about a week ago. It was light, funny. Told her I was going away. Never got an email.
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She's already flaked on you twice.

She's not interested and she's stringing you along..

If you wanna play baseball You can step up to the plate for flake number 3 but i wouldn't even bother.

i agree with Dust 2 Dust, he made very good points. Why set yourself up for failure again man.

DIGNITY. GET SOME.

if you are going to see this girl on campus again..it will be humiliating.

If you want, try this:

(in an email)
Say some ****y funny story, maybe with a hilarious picture in it..then email it (CC to a bunch of your friends and include her email in the list.

That way you are creating social proof via email..and keeping your dignity about bombarding her with emails directly.

If she doesnt reply, you cant say you didnt try

Did you notice the contradiction in this sentence?

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Perhaps some girls aren't willing to give their numbers out to any schmuck that walks up from the street. My proof that she was interested came from her look while I was talking to her and the (shyte effort, but effort) she made in the weeks to follow.

Remember I'm not stopping for her, just trying to rally this one. She isn't the only girl in my sights...She is foreign, hot and seems to be really shy.

But yeah, I take this as disinterest too...but if you saw each transaction go down you probably wouldn't think so. (That's why I'm like - damn- you know).

Save my dignity huh. Persistance doesn't work for anyone?

Atleast with McHenrys idea I can get absolutely final answer, yes, even though it looks like I've got it already

Originally posted by matius
Atleast with McHenrys idea I can get absolutely final answer, yes, even though it looks like I've got it already

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Dude, What FInal Answer? what do you think you are Regis Philben?

Lets say you sent an email asking "Hey! WHat!? Playing Hard to get?"

How do you think she will respond to that? How would you respond to a chick you had low IL in that sent you that email?

"Matius, Im sorry, I really Really LIKE YOU ALOT!..but Im just soo shy, and couldnt bring myself to give you my phone number or write you back without fainting..SO no, Imnot playign hard to get..and I do like you alot"

Der?

No- I guess not.