One thing that I didn't realize until recently is that the type of friends you have can have a big effect on a guys chances of hooking up with chicks. I guess i've always known that but i'm more aware of it now. You see most of the time my friends are pretty cools guys. Very generous and always have my back and vice versa.

However, the one area that they're shady with seems to be with girls. You see, I'm a 23 year old virgin, not because I'm not a bad looking guy but because most of my life I suffered from extreme shyness which I've pretty much overcome now. The problem is that because I was so shy I never really learned how to put myself into situations were I could hook up with girls and get some experience.

So being that my friends are so generous and always have my back, they would definatly help me out right? WRONG!! When ever there's a situation where they're hanging out with chicks, I never get a call. I just get get to hear them talk about how they banged some chicks last night!!!!! They always give some BS excuse like "you didn't answer your phone" or some crap like that.

Take my best friend for example. He's got a girlfriend of almost two years now. This guy is really smooth with the ladies, so he's always meeting chicks . Being that he's got a girlfriend he's always getting a steady flow of As$ but rather than introducing his single friend to one of them, the BASTARD cheats on his girlfriend with these chicks. This happens like once a week often times with a different girl.

Now dont get me wrong, I know that it's not my friends responsibllity to help my lose my pesky virginity. I put most of the blame on myself but i'm just saying if the roles were reversed I'd try to help them out.

Have any of you guys experienced anything like this and what advice can you give me? I'd appreicate any comments you may have.

You can't sit back in this life and wait/expect for people to give you things.

If you want something you've got to go out and take it.

Your friends just probably still see you as the shy kayman and wonder if you can actually close the deal or not with a woman. Anyway, the real issue here is that you should be only depending upon yourself for women. You can't take those guys to bed with you. Well, you can but I assume you want the women in bed with you alone instead.

Just read the DJ Bible until your eyes hurt. Go and hunt down your own women and let your friends handle their business.

Don't hate on your buddies. It sounds like they are independent DJs which is where you are headed now that you have overcome your shyness.


Mizer

Maybe they tried it once, and it didn't work out (when you were sitll an AFC).

So they didn't try it again.