A few things I have noticed in observing successful ladies' men at college.

1) They project a sense of ease and appear laid-back and relaxed
2) One feels comfortable in their presence, their is something about them that puts you at ease
3) When talking to women again it is almost casual, and they appear to be completely indifferent to the outcome
4) They appear free of tension and smile a lot of the time.
5) Nothing appears to bother them or shake them from their laidback manner.

What is more, if you develop these attributes, they will serve you extremely well in all other areas of life involving dealing with people.

What these traits do is they demonstrate confidence without arrogance and control without dominance.

If others could elaborate on how to develop these characteristics, it would be much appreciated.

First of all, you are very right with your observations.

The reason why guys with a laidback attitude like this have a lot of success is that people tend to feel very comfortable around them. it also projects an aura of "coolness"

This kind of attitude also tends to put you in a more confident state of mind

First of all, make sure that your posture is kind of relaxed. Try to relax all the muscles in your body

Also, do everything a little slower than usual, walk a little slower, talk with a relaxed tone in your voice.

If you are relaxed, girls will see you more as a mystery...


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