“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Help, I think I am too friendly

Ultra Magnus

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Guys,

I had a talk with a girl last night who i am not interested in. She told me that i am super fun to talk to and very approachable. Basically, I seem like a very nice and friendly guy to talk to. However, I am not sure if it is a good thing or not.

I think when you seem too approachable, girls think of you more of a brother type rather than a boyfriend type. But I can't help being friendly and talkative. Is there any way I can use my outgoingness into a tool in my attempt to become a DJ?

Thanks!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Oscar Wilde

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This is the typical first post of the Nice Guy.

You need to read up on The Bible - as someone remarked here before, it's hidden way up there at the top of every page :)

Go, read, comprehend. Come back, ask specific questions.

Good luck, and welcome to the new world.

Oscar.
 

Starman

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Being approachable is good..being friendly is good..but your problem seems to be the point at which a girl does approach you..it sounds like immediately you try to become their "friend" when in the back of your mind you are imagining taking her behind some dirty outhouse and having filthy monkey sex with her..

Drop the friendliness act as soon as you lure them in..and start with the Techniques outlined in the bible(and I dont mean "Though shall not kill")
 

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Your friendliness is not the problem. Later on it will be a boon. Wait and see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wizzard

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i would say, that being nice, is a positive thing WHEN used in conjunction with the 'Take-away' (not chicken balls, and an egg fried rice tho....lol)
 
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