“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bb213

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Has anyone ever had this situation: You meet a girl who you get along great with, have great chemistry in bed & out and all that except, she's just what you'd call borderline on your standards. Like, if she was one point higher on the scale there would be no question, but since she isn't quite exactly what you want physically you have some doubts.
So what I'm asking is this: If everything else you want is there, should you ditch her just because she is a 6 or 7 rather than an 8 or 9? What do you all think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

jbbrain

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dude, it's really up to you.

you have to figure out for yourself if you could imagine yourself being with someone you're not entirely physically attracted to.

I know, at this stage in my life, I wouldn't be.
 

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dude lose your stupid scale..either you are attracted to her or you arent.
 

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You won't ever be happy. You will always be slightly unsatisfied, and you know it. Stop kidding yourself. I know that you wonder if it's a little superficial to dump her because she's not up to standards, but that's reality. Do you think she'd forgive you if you were one or two points below her? Yeah, right. Find someone that you are truly attracted to if you want a LTR.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

htemorp

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Ya dude, she's pretty until your friends saw her. Happened to me before, but in reality the issue isn't about the girl, it's about yourself.
 

htemorp

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Ya dude, she's pretty until your friends saw her. Happened to me before, but in reality the issue isn't about the girl, it's about yourself.

Great saying from somewhere: Ugly guy with good looking girl; she: he treats me well. Good looking guy with ugly girl; he: Who? Oh, I don't know her.
 

DankNuggs

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So you dating a fat chick.......

Mopeds: Fun to ride until someone sees you on one......
 

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Mopeds are cool

Hey, everyone tells me I look real cool on my VESPA moped.

I think you can never go wrong with a moped so long as you ride it well.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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