“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How many times to ask out on a date

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I’ve asked a girl out on a date via email (don’t have #), meet her a couple of time before, reasonable interest level, no reply after 5 days. A girl friend of mine says I should ask one more time. I’m ready to move on, but she says that girls sometime want you to ask for a second time, just to see if you are really interested, sounds like AFC behaviour to me, what do you recon folks?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Never ask out a girl over email!

What does the girl think?

"Wimp"

"Won't ask me out in person!"

"A NEW AGE guy!" (Avoid being a new age, NICE GUY)

I was going to say ask her out only ONCE. You may salvage this situation by asking her out one more time, but in person.

But in general, ask out a girl only ONCE.
 

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I would suggest that you pickup other girls when she's with you, make her feel what you felt. Then at the end of the day say something like 'Well I had fun, see you around I guess' :D
 

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And yeah, imho asking her out over email is setting a solid 'AFC' foundation if you ask me, you could get some dates out of it, but you'll start of on the wrong foot I think.
 

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Nicholas, cheers for the prompt reply. I did not want to make the post to complicated, but the situation is that I probably wont see her again and can only communicate through a messaging system on a web site, that’s tied in with an event for singles. I’ve had success getting dates with the messaging system, after these events. Should have given you more info to start with.
 

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Guys, you are not going to believe this I have literally just received a message from her, the dates on! talk about coincidence, cheers for you comments.
 
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