“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Can't be Myself

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I don't know why but when I'm around people I don't know or don't know well, I can't be myself. I always try to 'act' cool or 'act' a certain way.

I think it comes to embracing my sexuality. I tend to put on an act around other people, especially girls Im attracted to because i am unsure of my desires.

I'm thinking about explicitly going out there with the idea that I want to have sex with the girl, so I won't put on this act.. who knows.

I should feel 'comfortable' with myself. But I don't. I always strive to be better, so in social situations it's like I try to hard or something.

I can't be myself. Any ideas?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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At it's core it's a self-esteem issue. You have to love and accept yourself and know that you are worthy. It's natural to be nervous around hot women, but remember that they are people too, and you just have to talk to them like you would any other person. Trying to act cool in front of them only comes off as insecure. So if you want to add certain behaviors make them a part of your personality which you can manifest in a relaxed and unforced manner.
 
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Drow- Try to give it a go...and see if this makes you rest easier. I guess the only way to embrace your sexuality is to make contact and deal with it. That make sense is some strange dime store psychobabble way?
 
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Unbridled,

that makes sense thanks.

I think it is a self-esteem issue and an EGO issue. I place everything on my ego. I attempt to act a certain way and support my EGO but when you base yourself on your ego, you are setting yourself up for fall.

EGO is fragile, and EGO is falty because you let other people's perception of you carry your mood, and your state of happiness.


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will do.
 
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Drow you seem quite insightful might I add...you're well on your way to making things better for yourself. That's good for you, you're only 19...
when you base yourself on your ego, you are setting yourself up for fall. EGO is fragile, and EGO is falty because you let other people's perception of you carry your mood, and your state of happiness.
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This is an absolutely brilliant summary. I would of like to have had this to chew on years ago before I learnt the hard way.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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