“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Oscar Wilde

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Whilst I appreciate not having to read through 25 paragraphs of bitterness, perhaps you can provide us with a little more context.

You will either get

a) no answers (more likely), or
b) irrelevant answers (if anyone can be bothered to answer).

btw, yes, I'm bored.

Oscar.
 

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My theory is they have deep internal sh-t they haven't worked out in their life. Most people who are genuinely happy have worked out their own anger, overcome obstacles, and don't take out their internal problems on others.

Every angry person I know needs a year (minimum) of intense psycho-therapy (some shock therapy wouldn't be bad either!) but they're so in denial that they think it's everyone else's fault.

I would say 99.9 percent of the angry people in this world have serious personal problems that need to be worked out and understand it's not the world that's screwing them over, it's their own thought process.
 

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i can't help but be pissed off at life sometimes
i'm on summer break from university which is cool, but i got fired from my dishwashers job a few days ago, i got no money, my mom b!tches at me a lot cuz i play guitar in a metal band, drink and smoke weed all the time
i'm happy most of the time but it's impossible for me to walk around with a smile on my face 24/7
some people seem to think i have a negative attitude........go figure:D
 

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trevor, how do you get fired from a dishwasher's job??

You have to learn to let go of anger. It will manifest itself in many ways, such as anxiety. Learn to accept some things in your life, and make the best of what you have. If certain people continue to mistreat you, then cut them out of your life.
 

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Dude...All I can tell you about anger is it will force people to withdraw from you and vice versa also if you don't control it and rationalize it will cause you to get seriously hurt by someone or you will let out aggression on someone and land yourself in jail for a long time..Most people that cant control themselves always end up in jail or dead...thats not an attractive alternative....think deeply and intelligently and not on the surface all the time.
 
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