Ok, I've known this girl for a few months, I met her when I served her in the supermarket I work at. Whenever she come in she used to smile and come to my checkout and talk to me. Anyway on friday I was down the street and saw her working in another place and talked to her about half an hour and she mentioned she just joined the gym.

Well later that night I went to the gym and she was there talked a bit more, and we left at the same time and she got out her phone and said "I wish someone would ring me" and I said "Well, I might ring you" and got out my phone and she said "I have to ring my mum, but first im putting my number in your phone" and grabbed it and put it in, and I asked if she wanted to do something tonight, she had to ask her mum, her mum said not tonight.

She rang me the next night and wanted me to come over, I went over. We were playing pool, a bit of kino, and I put my arms around her when she was planning her shot and from then she was hugging me and everyting, high interest

Later we went and watched tv and were cuddling and that, and started making out and after a few minutes she said "I have something to tell you" (I thought OH ****) and she said, "I love you", I was releived because I thought it was something else, but I was also shocked and surprised, i had no idea what to say I just went "mmm" and kept kissing her.

Anyone had this happen before, it was the first date and she told me she loves me, Maybe shes liked me for a while or something, I dunno, I kind of thought there was interest but wasn't gonna ask her out when I was working.

When I left again she said "I love you" and "I wanted to tell you on the phone but I thought you'd freak out. Also on the phone next day "I wish i could see you, its killing me" (Her parents wouldn't let her out)

I don't reakon this is a bad thing, because I definately know shes into me, but it just shocked me that she said it so soon. Today I said it back when she said it because I don't know if she'd crack the ****s or what if I just kept on saying nothing when she said it.

What do you guys think I should of said the first time? And do you think I should tell her I love her when she does first? As long as i'm not always telling her I love her and shes perfect and AFC **** like that.

A few other funny things with her parents and brother, but I won't write any more now, this post is long enough.

-Ben

Ever read 1984?

It's probably much worse to say nothing when she says something like that. What to say, though...hmm. Don't tell her you love her unless you love her. From the sound of it you don't.

Maybe say "oh you're such a materialist." I dunno.

****y/funny response maybe?

"I know."
"I love me too."

I never tell girls who I ahvent been goinng out with for ages that i love them anymore, I just agree with them on the subject and get on with what ever we're doing. It just makes you a little bit less pedictable- in my mind.

When a girl is so interested and she says she loves you dont b C+F unless you want her to cry for hrs on end after you leave. Don't say anything, just look in her eyes and kiss her. Don't you dare lie and say you love her too, thats just cruel. If I were you I'd just be honest "We've only been seing each other a few days..." and she will understand you dont throw around your feelings, most likly respect it and jsut work harder for your "love."