i need help guys, what i wanna know is how do i sit back and attract, in general, make the guys think im that cool kid and make the ladies approach me.

another problem i have is ive been with this girl for a while and whenever we break up im always the one that initiates contact between us before, shes told me before, when ive asked her why this is so, she told me "Your the Man, You gotta make the move" alright im fine with that but, how do i know if shes feelin me? i wanna make her feeeen the way she got me feenin but im always the one that gotta make the move. whats up with that??

any adviceeeee?????? please?

Since you live in Brooklyn, I'd say you need to either 1)be a rap star or 2)join the mafia. Either one, and you'll be getting all the respect and women you could want.

If Brooklyn were a city it would be like the fourth or fifth largest in the country...No you don't have to be in the mafia or rap star....Brooklyn is one of the most diverse places on the planet...Be confident and assertive as I know girls in Brooklyn and NYC and the boroughs like that...Be a man...unlike other places that are small and backwards kinda like the South and midwest...where dudes are sleeping with the livestock in the backyard as they are more willing and prettier than the girls...LOL...Kidding

yea but theres another thing, i live in an area of brooklyn where there are soooo many hot spanish girls and they looking for the more thuggish look, there are also some white girls. i like both, i look like a white boy even though im not exactly white. i really wanna keep that all around look, but no matter what i do i always leave the white boy impression and i get mostly white girls, I WANT BOTHHHH i dont know what to do...
hmmmm a lil off the topic but thats what came to my mind

If you are in the 16 to 22 yr old range I could see that in parts of Brooklyn...I would be different and make my mark...not all girls are into that thug nonsense....most thugs I know are fronting to act like they are tough...**** em..walk the street like your packing a foot long **** and let the girls take notice of ya....find your niche.