http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=28445

That my previous thread leading to this.......

Anyway i text the girl today after not being in touch with her for just over a week.

Anyway i started writing the txt then spoke to my flat mate and came back after 10min to finish the txt and sent it.

When i looked at my out box i noticed i had repeated myself!

heres the txt - "hey how r u? did u get all your english stuff handed in on time? will be in touch (10 min break!). I've just been busy with my band. I'll be in touch. John."

Having repeated myself have i ****ed up - i sent it at 5 pm yesterday (fri uk time) and haven't heard anything. Should i call her on sunday to arrange a date?

My mates are wanting to go out on monday night should i call her and invite her out on Monday?

What do u think?

Not sure what the problem is bro. Why not just give her a call?

From this thread and the other one, you're overanalyzing things. What makes you think she's testing you. You said in your text, "i'll be in touch". She probably expects you to call her sometime, which you should do. And before you ask when, do it when you feel, though i don't know why you'd want to add your friends. Wouldn't you rather ask her somewhere alone?

Hey i guess i was just expecting a txt back but then a again thats the **** thing about txts!

As for the Monday night thing i was just thinking we could have went to a club in our groups and met up as a kind of pre date date!!!!!!! If that makes sence - as i aint too good at one on one dates.

hey bro i cantell you the last thing you want to do is pre-date. avoid meeting her friends and acquaintances at least for a little while.

jst go on the date. you say you are bad... nobody knows but you just go on a date and post your experience people will give you analysis.