“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm stumped, what to do...

Chip

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Well, I believe I got some interest back from that girl I had originally screwed up with.
We went out last Saturday night and had ourselves a blast.
But she's leaving in 2 days to do a 1 and half month archeology dig (school thing).
I'll be leaving 2 weeks after her to Ontario for 1 month (work).
All together we won't see each other for about 2 months.
We've only got together 2 times.
First time: I screwed up
Second time: Made things better.
Now, I want to see her one more time before she heads off (I'm thinking Lunch for this coming Saturday)
But I don't want to come off as too desperate, cause she had called me the day after our second get-together.
I pretty much sounded desperate than (I think) cause I had asked her then if she wanted to goto a muesum of Anthropology with me before she leaves. She said she was too busy (she's taking 3 condensed summer school courses) and that she'll probably come home in the weekends from her trip.
So, would it look desperate of me to call her up on Saturday to see whether she wants to have lunch or not?
(I'm also tempted to ask her whether she is seeing someone right now, so I can decided whether I am wasting my time or not - but that may be a sign of weakness)
Any feed-back is appreciated.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

InLawsHateMe

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Sounds like you got things ok... ya both have pretty tight schedules, but her interest is there... congrats on the recovery btw. If you can get in one more day with her, don't just take her out to lunch. Do something fun for yourself, and include her with you. ;) ... this way, she'll remember the last time you were together, you guys had a pretty good time. :) ...then when you are out there diggin up sh*t... find a fossil bone, and mail it to her. With the bone, send her a note that says, 'I was thinking of you, and got a boner.' :)
 

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Its too bad this site dosen't give eprops because that deserves one

Good hunting
 
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