Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's because the "tightness" or "looseness" of the vaginal canal is dependent on lubrication. The vagina does not stretch because of sex... contrary to popular belief. It only streches in extreme cases:Originally posted by mystik
im still a virgin but yeah im gettin there. Anyway i was also struck by how loose the vaginal canal really is. I couldnt do it last friday because i didnt have a condom (went the very next day n got a pack, but too late =/ ) but as i was fingering her i realized that i didnt even have to stretch the walls too much. I guess i had a predisposed notion of the vaginal being really tight.
LOL!Originally posted by Matrix: Revolutions
The rabbit hole goes deeper than you think...
The great thing about a vagina is that it is small enough to fit your manhood, but can become large enough to spit out a baby. Granted, sex does stretch the walls, but is highly unlikely because that would take a lot of sex... and sex for very long periods of time.Originally posted by Hemilaya_Playa
Actually... during sex the vaginal wall does stretch, and after repeated usage (boning) it will start to got back to it's regular size less and less. Regular masturbation of the vagina also stretches its walls. For all women, however, the size of the vagina is different so she may not be as tight as other girls, but she is not loose either.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.