This girl I was interested in a ways back and talked to a few times but never had the balls to approach comes up to me in the cafeteria and kicks me in the back of the leg, I take my time turning thinking its a stupid friend of mine and here she is. I was surprisingly nonplussed and she goes "Hey" and then I say hi and go right back to getting my salad. She stood there for a moment a bit befuddled and then walks away. I walk right past her in the line and go about the rest of my activities, I tell my friend who is standing looking at the line to check her out and he says she looks confused. I laughed and then went and sat down.
When I think about it I probably handled the situation wrong - I should of smacked her in the ass or something. Perhaps I'll do that next time if I see her. How inappropriate was my action you think? LOL!

Originally posted by AlucardXXVII
It sounds to me like a perfect opportunity to strike up conversation was blown. =]

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Yep!

Haha, just so long as you get with her in the end!

Besides, it isn't as if confusing the women you like is a BAD thing...

BGMan

Wow, you need to read the DJ BIble soldier...

Contrary to what you may think, this may not have been such a bad idea. My own personal example: Years ago I worked with a girl that I was interested in and she gave me the run around. I finally gave her up as a lost cause, and completely ignored her. When I quit giving her the attention she was used to she started coming around to me. One time at a picnic she went out of her way to squeeze past me at a picnic table and brush up against me. I told her, "could you please excuse yourself?" It drove her nuts. She would start coming to my desk at work while I was sitting there and push her "mangos" unusually close to my face while talking to me. (I was sitting and she was standing so they were eye level). I could give you more examples but I will just say that sometimes ignoring a woman can force them to realize they are missing something they took for granted before.