“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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flyjesta81

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ok guys well I posted awhile back about a girl who said she was gonna break up with her bf well she did but then she finally tells me she also went out with another guy and all along i'm here waiting like a dork. this makes me so pissed off should I just forget this b.... or be a total jerk to her from now on?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Blaaaaat

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Don't ever wait, don't ever become a jerk.

Do go out and hit on other girls, do become a DJ.
 

jnallen

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I am possibly having the same thing happen to me right now. Haven’t figured it out. Although I am not waiting on her. I have been getting other numbers etc.
 

Oscar Wilde

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You're in LJBF territory.

Get out, quick.

You know the drill, read the posts.

Osc.
 

JJMcLure

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You have no reason to be a jerk to her.

I assume you waited around and didn't ask her out, waiting till she broke up with her BF. That was a mistake. Chicks don't stay single long. Hesitation leads ot masturbation.

If you act a jerk to her she won't know why and will just think you're an idiot.

But if you did ask her out and she dated the other guy instead, you will come across like you got your feelings hurt. It'll only hurt your game. She will know she has some power over you and could play a few games and manipulate you.

Never focus on one chick, always have multiple options. You could use this one as social proof, plus does she have any friends?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

PRMoon

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Waiting is NEVER and option!! You should of been hitting on atleast two additional women along side this one so the loss wouldn't of been as detrimental! Bad time management on your part my friend.

I'm going to keep saying it to anyone who isn't in an LTR, hitting on or dating multiple women is not a crime! It's expected that you should spread yourself out to optimize your chances for success. You'll be alot happier and overall be a much better DJ.
 

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Feel strongly about this one...so thought I would post.

Basically, what the other guys say is completely true. Do not wait around, I stress, do not wait. What do you think is going to happen..she is going to come running to you? she may of been interested but thought that you were not due to your lack of any interest.

Make the move...your the man. I would rather know for sure about things than wait around waiting for things to happen. Take Action , my friend
 

flyjesta81

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Hey thanks for all the inof guys. you know I was pissed off today
she finally told me cheated on her bf with some dude well i told
her that I wasn't going to talk to her anymore. and she said sorry and bunch of crap like that but. she said that she was giving off the wrong impression. I was mad cuz here I am thinkin I was gonna get a chance then she goes with some other dude and cheats. how dumb I think I need some lessons in this stuff cuz
I keep falling in the ljbf category. and it really sucks
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

CyranoDeBergerac

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Being an @$$ is beneath your dignity.

You have been standing on the outside looking in with this girl. You were no more apart of the picture to this girl than a fly on the wall.

Its time to stop wasting your attentions on a girl who doesn't appreciate the effort. You need to move on. Period.
 
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well you live and you learn man next time dont wait for a woman unless if she is like you serious GF or your wife .

but in general i agree with the other DJ s here move on and always have your options open for the next one and protect your heart firstmost ok .



LATEZ!!!! F LOVE , LOVE TO F....
 

flyjesta81

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I was going through my old email account and it led me to this website! Talk about memories! It's crazy how life turns out, I ended up marrying this girl and I have two children now! :whistle:
 

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Awesome. So some cheating slvtbag that got tired of riding bad boy alpha c*ck is now mother to your kids. Congrats.
 
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