well i got a greta girl now, and she does everything for me in te bedroom if you know what i mean. but i think theres a problem with me. she would literally give me head for hours and i wouldnt orgasm. i try really hard but i dont, unless we have sex then of course but she keepsgoing and going but it just doesnt work. why??why??
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do i have a problem?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
You may not be wired for it. Tell her you enjoy it but don't work that way. Start with the BJ and then move to whatever gets you cranked. That way she continues and you both don't get head-trips started on yourselves.
Umbra
Master Don Juan
During a BJ, she has the most control over where you are stimulated. During sex, you do, because you can move to a position that feels better. You know what feels good to you. I would suggest that you help her find your most sensitive areas. I'm pretty sure when her technique adjusts to your particular needs, you will have an orgasm with no problem. Try having her keep her mouth tighter around you (no teeth though) and increasing the stimulation to both the bottom of your shaft and the area where your head joins the shaft.
i do tell her what to do duriong my bj, bc it hasnt worked for so long. i even flat out help her but still "no go"i tell her where to press, how and when and stuff but i cant do it. shes getting annoyed bc she says it wont help me anyways, and i usually finish off in the bathroom by myself
Umbra
Master Don Juan
Maybe the performance stress is getting to you. Perhaps next time, try closing your eyes and concentrating on the pleasure; imagine you're having sex. You can even move a little in or out of her mouth yourself if you don't go crazy with it and choke her. Also try keeping a hand gently along the side of her cheek, resting the fingers on the back of her head. It might help you guide the pressure and speed as you reach climax. Remember that she WANTS you to orgasm, so you can get away with a lot. Don't abuse her, but don't hesitate to do what you can to increase your pleasure. After all, she is giving you a BJ for YOUR pleasure.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
I get the same fvcking problem. It takes me forever to cvm with a bj. Don't make a big deal out of it. If she's up for an incredible challenge one day, she'll suck the hell out of you until you blow.
Umbra
Master Don Juan
Bungo Pony, you TOO!?!? Oh man, my heart just sank. We have to do something about this problem. A BJ is one of the greatest things in the world. Try using the advice I gave 5uave earlier, and tell me what the results were.
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
I tried all that 5hit Umbra. I've came from getting a bj, but it takes a long time to get there. It's a way different feeling than sex.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Umbra
Master Don Juan
Have you had BJs from different girls with different techniques?
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
Yes I have, and I've separated them into 2 categories - women who make me cvm, and women who don't. The ones who make me cvm take a long time to do it. I've also noticed that most younger girls are fvcking horrible at giving bjs.
The ones who make me cvm are excellent at reading my body language.
The ones who make me cvm are excellent at reading my body language.
Man,
I too cant shoot my load when birds are giving me a BJ.
Not even the pro's have managed..if you not what I mean. I end thinking get off my c0ck, its a great way of sobering up. Looking down thinking sh;t, why didn't I just ask that bird I just met for some head!. Drinking is the cause of this.
Though, even the girl I am Fukking at the moment, she tries so hard. She is good certainly gets me going but she does it with a condom on so next time I am going to tell her not to use one.
Oh well, she will have to learn that practice makes perfect, should be fun
I too cant shoot my load when birds are giving me a BJ.
Not even the pro's have managed..if you not what I mean. I end thinking get off my c0ck, its a great way of sobering up. Looking down thinking sh;t, why didn't I just ask that bird I just met for some head!. Drinking is the cause of this.
Though, even the girl I am Fukking at the moment, she tries so hard. She is good certainly gets me going but she does it with a condom on so next time I am going to tell her not to use one.
Oh well, she will have to learn that practice makes perfect, should be fun