“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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NEWBIE101

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I realized today that I try to hard around girls.

I try to be such a great guy around the girls that I like, and sometimes they think it's boring. For instance, I think about what I'm gonna say before saying anything to a hot girl and sometimes the convo can become boring and dull.

Then the girls who I don't care if they like me. I do the dumbest things and just am a cool kid who will do or say anything that is on his mind. And they all end up liking me even though I don't even care if they do.

I realized that I just gotta stop trying so hard and just be myself and the girls will flock to me.

Anyone else agree?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Smooth as Anything

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Nah.

Don't be yourself.

Unless you are infact a Don Juan.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Nah.

Don't be yourself.

Unless you are infact a Don Juan.
Lol. Don't think what you're going to say. More often then not, it will cause you to have doubt. That's bad.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Lol. Don't think what you're going to say. More often then not, it will cause you to have doubt. That's bad.
I was being serious, did you skip SoSuave.com's (not the forum's) little thing on "just be yourself"?

Be yourself as in embody the personality you hold, yet the idea behind the DJ method is to make that personality a different one.

So, perhaps you shouldn't be yourself -- if being yourself is what you find not working.

Be a Don Juan, for even if it's not "you" it will soon manifest yourself.

You think therefore you are.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There's a post in the HS Bible someplace that deals with "going with the flow." It basically iterates what a couple guys have been saying so far about not THINKING so much. Unless you can read someone's mind and know exactly what they're going to say, there's no reason to try to plan out all your lines - all it takes is one curve ball and they're all pretty much thrown to waste.

I used to do exactly what you describe about trying to think out things first, and it was kind of hard to get out of the habit. You've just gotta learn to relax and fall away from what you've been doing.

"With repetition comes demise, yet with creativity comes longevity."
 
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