Okay, I'm going out with this 17 year old girl. shes about a 9.5/10 in looks and a 9.7/10 in personallity so as you can see I think this girl is awesome. Asked her out the last week and we had a great time. We went bowling, ontop a parkinglot that went up a couple floors and made-out, then went to this nice cafe and cuddled on the couches, then she drove me home, she wouldn't let me leave the car because we had such a great time and she thought I was a great kisser. Eventually I got out because I told her that we have to save some for later (make her miss me).

She was telling me all night about how suave I was, and how nervous I make her feel, and how I'm such a mystery man. I was super cool that night. Everytime she made a complement I said "I know". She told me after I got out the car that she was going to miss me. She even asked me if I would miss her! I told her "maybe..." She laughed. She couldn't believe the way I acted and was practically falling apart in on my lips. She was shaking everytime I touched her and was breathing deeply. She shuddered as I was kissing her. I was really turning her on that night and probably could have gotten away with anything. But I decided to call it a night. We had a lot of fun.

So as you can tell, I was finally able to act like the dj I always wanted to be with a beautiful girl. Anyways, with the problem, I told her in the beggining that I'd show her how to have fun. And we had a lot of fun that night. But on the phone, she was practically begging for a second date. And she wanted me to show her my way of having fun differently I guess. Something out of her element she said. Even though we had a great first date I guess she wants even more from me now. I know that this is a test to see if I really am the real thing. I think that no matter where I pick to go she will be dissappointed or won't be out of her element enough to shock her or something. I know that I'm doing really good now, but how can I keep up? Is there a c/f way of testing her back and not let her put me in such a situation? Something funny and intreging like I make her hang out at my house and say that this is what I call fun, or do I accept this challenge by her? Do any of you Djs have any idea of what I should do? Do you know of any great date ideas?

All suggestions are welcome.

You could pull the fake "spur of the moment date" on her. It's something I saw on here a while ago. Don't remember who wrote it though. You find one of these travelling carnivals in your area, then arrange a dinner or lunch date in a restaurant near where the carnival is. As you drive by, you say to her "Hey, that looks like fun!". Pull over, grab her by the hand and go for it. If there aren't any carnivals nearby, find something else equally exciting and spontanious looking. The dinner or lunch date can be something else too, if that doesn't fit your style, or her's. As long as it's something at a specific location.

I like the carnival idea.
Do you have any beautiful scenery by your area or anything? Really high cliffs looking over a lake or something similar?
Tell her your going to the movies, then make her drive up the hill cos you dont feel like seeing a movie anymore. Awesome views with dj's always kill women

Play hard to get. Use the 2steps forward 1 step back technique. Basically what you do is figure out what that girl your dating wants the most. Then instead of giving it to her all the time, take it back and don't give it to her for few days and after few days give that back to her and repeat the process until she thinks that your her hero.

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She wants something out of her element... whats something everyone wants?

Ice cream, s'mores, massages, OTHER

Ice cream is prolly too informal for a 'knock her sox off' date. Massage parlors are expensive [@leased in buffalo, lol], but chillin by a fire making some gram cracker/chocolate/marshmello sandwiches... thats AMAZING.

If you have a fireplace, thats money. They also sell firepits @ homedepot's for like 50 bucks [get ur parents to buy it]. Or, go to a beach, bring some stuff to make the fire [firebrick, newspaper, lighter, wood, duh], and sit in the sand. Havin some music on hand is always good, too.

There is always the possibility of "other." If you are really good @ something wierd, teach her how to do it. A great example would be meditation. Another type of an "other" event is some thematic outing, like going to a comedy club or a theatre.

But, either way, tell her as little about your plans as possible, just tell her when and the general type of event [if you are chillin by the fire tell her to dress casual, if you are goin out on the town tell her to dress up].

Above all - realize it is not where you go on the date that makes it out of her element per say... its how YOU act. Throw her some curveballs, make her think, HAVE FUN.

Good advice, thanx everyone. I think I know what to do now