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Field Report: My Adventures in South Beach

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Hi guys,

A few weeks ago I was attending a seminar in South Beach, Florida. Here's a field report on all the fun I had. Yeah, it's a bit long (as are most of my field reports). But there's some real goodies in there, so enjoy.

Also, if you have any comments or critiques, I would love to here hear them.


Okay, so I was attending a persuasion seminar (non-seduction) by Kenrick Cleveland (Ross Jeffries' original teacher). It was scheduled to be from Thursday until Sunday, so I arrived Wednesday morning.

WEDNESDAY

After settling in the hotel, I called up a local from SoSuave that had contacted me via e-mail. He didn't want to provide me with his username, which is fine, even though I will admit that it did arouse my curiosity. Anyway, all I know about him is that he was one of the original posters on SoSuave, and he hasn't posted in some time. He's in his mid 20s, and recently moved to Florida.

So at about 5 in the evening, he meets me at my hotel. We sat outside and just kicked back and talked for a bit. He was a really nice guy, and we got along pretty well. Along the way, as girls walked past us, I would tell them "hi" or "hello," but I was getting virtually zero response from them.

Finally though, a couple of girls that I had said hello to, replied, then walked back a bit after passing us. So I invited them to join us, which they did.

It turned out that they were airline stewardesses on vacation, and that they would be leaving tomorrow. They were very flirty, especially the Asian one. We talked for about fifteen minutes or so, before they left and we got their numbers.

The SoSuave local felt that they were trying to get us to buy them drinks, but my belief was that they were leaving tomorrow, and they wanted to get laid really bad, and were just looking for an excuse to stay longer.

Anyway, by that time, a friend of Drew's who posts in another message board had arrived. Drew had put me in touch with him a couple of weeks before the trip. We all sat down together and talked for a bit before going out and getting a bite to eat.

My opinion of Drew's friend (I don't know his handle, and won't use his real name) is that he is a very cool guy. He pretty much knows where everything is in South Beach, and more than one person recognized him on our outing, so it's obvious he was a pretty popular guy. With a great personality, I can see why that is the case.

After dinner, we all went back to my hotel room and listened to one of David DeAngelo's Advanced series CDs, which Drew's friend had brought along. We also discussed different method. Drew's friend's method is based mostly on C&F, and he has that down pretty solid. He gets most of his chicks via the Internet, and shared with us the e-mails he sends out, along with some pictures of the girls he has gotten over the Internet - very impressive.

By then it was almost 11 at night, so we decided to head out to the clubs. Overall there really weren't that many chicks in the clubs we went to, and those we did meet had major bytch shields, at least those that I approached.

Even in the streets, where there were chicks walking by, almost all of them ignored my "hellos." I was pretty close to writing off South Beach altogether, but we went to a few other clubs. Nothing really happened, and about 1:30 a.m. we decided to call it a night, and planned on meeting up over the next few days, as our schedules would allow. Unfortunately, our schedules conflicted and we did not meet again during my trip.

To be honest, I was missing my Los Angeles chicks. For some reason everybody seems to think that LA chicks have major attitude, but from my experience, they tend to be very friendly and laid back.

THURSDAY

The next evening neither of the SoSuave local nor Drew's friend were able to hang out, so I got some work done in my hotel room until 11 pm. Afterwards, I went to the outside hotel lounge and hung out with some of the guys attending the seminar.

Now, I had figured since this was the same guy who taught RJ, that one or two of the guys there also practiced Speed Seduction. As it turned out, all but one guy was familiar with SS. Even the married guys had studied SS. Some of those guys have even been studying SS since its inception in 1993.

Most of them though were only familiar with the SS style of seduction, so we started talking about pickup techniques, and I ended giving an hour seminar on the different seduction styles.

By then it was almost one in the morning, so myself and a couple of guys decided to take a walk before calling it a night. I don't know exactly what happened, but it was then that things took a MAJOR change for the better.

One of the guys from the group, who being involved in SS and NLP for less than a year, was a relative newbie like myself, and he and I just clicked. For the remainder of this report, and for future reports (yup, he's in other FRs as well), I'm going to call him Host. The reason for this is that a while back he used to own a nightclub, so he's attitude and style is based on being the Host of the party, which has similarities to my style.

By the way, he's in his 40s, and he goes for the best looking chicks, regardless of age (Vegas Playa met him in Las Vegas, and mentioned to me that he gives him hope for when he gets older).

Anyway, we meet some chicks on the street, and just started bullshytting with them, and acting as if we all knew each other. I had my digital camera, and we started taking some wild pictures. We got girls we talked with for less than a minute to pose for us while we were slapping their asses and playing with their tits, or while they were rubbing our crotches. It was hilarious!

After about ten minutes of this, it started POURING like crazy. So we ran back to the hotel, soaked to the bones, and Host mentions to me that he feels like he's back in high school. I have to agree, it was a blast!

It was from this point forth that all interactions with the chicks in South Beach changed. As big of an attitude problem as they had before, well, that's how nice and docile they became from then on. The one thing that Host and I definitely attributed to our success was the fact that it's not that we had the best openers, or we had the best routines, or patterns, but rather that we came from such a powerful and intense state and mindset, that we just steamrolled all girls in our way. We didn't give them a chance to generate a bytch shield, and didn't care what they thought of us.
 

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Part II

FRIDAY

We attended the seminar from morning until night on Friday, like Thursday, and Saturday (and part of Sunday). We learned some great stuff on persuasion, and during our lunch and dinner breaks, we had a blast trying new stuff out.

Host and I would approach random groups of girls, and just act like we knew them and try all sort of weird stuff out on them. Host especially had a very unique opener for groups of girls, He would get about 5 feet away from them and say out loud in a very clear voice - "Ladies, ladies (to get their attention). We're in a hurry and have to get going. But we'll be back in an hour to pick you up. We're going to have a blast so get ready." It was hilarious, and in 50% of the cases one of the girls would say "You promise?" Or something to that effect.

We would go into stores and try out the craziest approaches, and just having a great time. Back in the seminar, around 8 pm or so, Host passes me a note letting me know that a couple of chicks he had met yesterday called him up, and they'll be meeting with us later on in a club.

After the seminar was over, he and I walked back to our hotel. It's only a 5 minute walk, but since we pretty much approached every girl we saw in the street, it took us about an hour to get back. One of the approaches was pretty amusing. There were two girls having dinner outdoors, and he stops me and asks me to show him some stuff on the girls. So here we are discussing which routines we should do, while the girls are looking at us like we had three eyes. It was so funny.

Finally I decide on which routines I'll be using, and I just sit down with the girls without an introduction or anything and tell them, "We're in a hurry, so we can't stay long, okay? They looked a bit taken back, so I quickly paced them and said something like, "Look at those two weird guys. (referring to Host and I). Here the two of you are sitting down, having dinner, and those guys just sit down with you like they've known you forever." They both start laughing, and I share with the girl closest to me the Cube and SRT. Since I'll be mentioning SRT several times in this FR, I'll describe it in detail right now.

Basically, SRT stands for Signal Recognition Technology, and it is the current "hot thing" in Speed Seduction. Generally speaking, SS has shifted from reciting patterns and using linguistic techniques, to the more anchoring aspects of NLP. Basically, an SRT is any process where you get the chick the become aware of the physical, internal sensations she has when she experiences a feeling or state, and have her become aware of where that feeling travels to (for example, if the state is attraction, it might start out as a knot in her stomach that moves up to her chest). From there, you can do some wild shyt like creating a sliding anchor or creating a filter for her to see you through, etc. Here's a step-by-step on the typical SRT demo.

1) Ask the chick, "What is the first signal, the first recognition, inside, that lets you know "x"? In most cases, the "x" that I use is "you're really attracted to a person?"

Now according to RJ, the girl almost always knows what you are talking about and will respond with the physical sensation. From my experience, that only happens 25% of the time, and instead they will give you a value. For those cases, I have to give her an example for her to understand what I'm talking about.

2) Ask the chick where the feeling goes from there, and have her trace it.

3) Let the girl know that she may not be aware of it, but that feeling actually has a color, and elicit the color of the feeling / state.

4) Have her measure the strength of the feeling from a scale of 1 - 10.

5) Take that energy, and turn it into a ball of energy of the color that she mentioned, and place the ball in your hand.

6) Move your hand back while having her notice that as you do so the feeling diminishes. Bring it forward and have her notice that as you do so the feeling increases (throughout the whole time, you raise or lower your own state based on whether you want to increase or lower her state).

7) Once she's at a 9 or a 10, place the ball of energy between you and her, and allow her to notice that there's really nothing in your hand, that what is important is what's behind that ball of energy, what she truly wants (obviously that's you!).

8) From there you can weave in a linguistic pattern, do some more demos, or take the ball of energy inside you so as to anchor those feelings to you.

9) Along the way you would have her measure the feeling, and have her say "more please" if she wants you to continue the demo.

So anyway, I share with her the Cube and the SRT, and tell her that we have to be leaving, but for her to give me a kiss before I go. I was going for a kiss on the cheek, but she went for a kiss on the lips! Not bad for 5 minutes worth of work.

We finally get to the hotel, and head to our rooms to get ready. Host knew of a cool club that some of the guys from the seminar had went to, so we decided to go there. It was a good 15 minute walk under ideal circumstances, but with the delays while we approached girls on the street, it took a while before we finally got there.

The club was HUGE, it took up 4 rooms inside the hotel, and the entire garden area outside, which in itself was enormous. I would say that there must have been anywhere from 1,000 - 3,000 people in there at any one time. But because it was so large, it didn't feel overcrowded. In addition, the music wasn't too loud. So all things taken into consideration, it was the IDEAL environment!

Inside, we find that many of the guys from the seminar were already there, but we didn't get a chance to talk with them immediately. Within seconds of getting in the club, we were already approaching girls and opening up sets.

It actually was pretty cool, we would open up a set, find guys from the seminar, introduce them to girls, and move on to the next group of girls. The time spent between approaching one group of girls and another could honestly be measured in seconds.

Host and I would separate and join up again throughout the night. And when we were together it was crazy. We would stop each other in the middle of sarge, give each other critiques over our sarges, and then we would continue sarging the girl as if there were no interruptions. It was hilarious!

I don't remember most of my approaches, simply because over those few days in South Beach, I must have approached over 400 girls. But I'll mention some of sarges that I do remember.

At one point I was talking to one of the guys from the seminar, when I hear another guy say, "Wow, look at those pair of..." Now, I could only imagine that the next word out of his mouth was "breasts," because at that point I saw a really cute chick was HUGE tits. In the span of a half a second, I was already there. She was with her female friend, and another guy was hitting on her.

I just went up to her and said, "So, we meet again." She looked up at me, and asked me if we had met before, and I shake my head, and give her a hard time for forgetting. I then talk to her friend, but loud enough for her (and the guy) to hear me, and weave a story on how she and I met three months ago in California, and that I was sitting in a bar, trying to relax, and she was hitting on me and trying to seduce me.

The tale was pretty good, I have to say. The whole time she, her friend, and even the guy was trying to hit on her were all DDBing. As well, the whole time I was escalating kino, and my hands were running along her arms and legs.

The guy who was hitting on her, tells me right in front of her, that he doesn't know how I did it. That he's tried everything on her, but nothing was working. He actually asks for PU advice. I gave him some suggestions, and then I left with the two chicks.

We hung out for a bit, before I became restless and wanted to approach some more girls, so I gave them both a kiss on the lips and told them that I have to catch up with some friends.

By then Host was busy with two chicks of his own, so I took one off his hands and played with her for a while, before going to other girls.

The whole night, both mine and Host's attitude were that that this is OUR party, and everyone there were our guests. And like any good hosts, it was our job to go around and make sure our guests were having fun. And when one particular guest aroused our curiosity, then we would spend more time with her.

I was having a blast, pulling a girl or two from one group, having her go with me while I met other chicks, and then depositing them in another group.

I tried all sorts of weird openers... sometimes I would enter a crowd of people, yell out a random chick's name, and whomever turned to look at me I would approach and act like I knew them, and just carry on the conversation as if she and I had spoken recently.

One of the girls asked me if I was on ecstasy. I told her that I've never tried it before, and if she had some. She quickly says, "Oh no, it's just that you have so much energy I thought you had taken some ecstasy." I laugh and get a guy to take a picture of us while she's kissing me on the cheeks, and then on the lips.

I take her with me to a few other groups, and we meet other people, before I drop her off back at her group and I go meet other girls.
 

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Part III

I approach a group of two girls and two guys. The guys looked familiar, and I thought that they were from the seminar as well. One of the girl stops me, and introduces me to the others in the group. I guess I had spoken to her earlier. She tells them that I'm the host of the party (she knew I wasn't, but that I was behaving as such). And she tells me, "How would I go about becoming a hostess, because you know, I think you and I would be good together. You the host, and me the hostess." Hahaha!!! Now she's sarging me!

My reply was that I was going to sit down over there (pointing to a table), and if you guys want to join me, you're more than welcome. So she and her female friend follow me and sit down at the table.

I started working on seducing the brunette chick, which was the one that was hitting on me. I did the SRT with her, and just teased her. I was getting good response, but her friend was getting antsy, so I turned and faced her and started seducing her as well. I was hoping that they were bisexual, but they claimed they were not. Dang it!

Anyway, I also used some C&F, and played with her. I then did the SRT, but instead of raising her level to 10, when I asked her to rate her feeling of attraction, she told me it's at 20. I told her, "How can you have a feeling of attraction of 20, when the scale is from 1 - 10?" She answers, "Well, you asked me how I feel right now, and it's at 20." I just shake my head, and I have her notice an imaginary knob to her left, and as I turned the knob counterclockwise, that the feeling of attraction would diminish. I did that until I got her to a 10.

Now, as I think about it, that was pretty dumb of me. Why in the world would I want a girl to be less attracted to me, just because her attraction was off the charts!

Afterwards, I added a small spin to the SRT, where you have the girl visualize a pool of pure crystal responsiveness right on her chest above her breasts. As part of this, you would draw the outline of the pool with your finger touching her chest (above the breasts). You then get the ball of attraction energy, and tell her that when the ball of energy touches the pool of crystal responsiveness, that a ripple will travel through her body.

So after doing that I asked her if she felt the ripple. She smiles and tells me that she didn't, that the reason I did that was just to touch her breasts.

I tell her, "No... I was touching your chest, not your breasts (I draw the same outline on her chest while saying this). NOW, I'm touching your breasts (as I run my hand over her breasts)."

She then starts mentioning some things about the Kama Sutra. It was obvious that she was really into me, but so was her friend. Both of them had pluses, and I couldn't decide which one I wanted. Again, dang them for not being bisexual!

By then a guy approaches us, and starts talking to the girls. He definitely had game, and I started talking to him. I thought he was definitely my savior, so I got up and told him to take my seat. And then I went to work some other girls.

In retrospect, that was pretty foolish, but then again, I've done other foolish things, and I'll continue to do more during my little adventure. Instead of leaving, I should have invited him to join us, and which ever of the girls seemed more interested in him, I would have let him have her, and then I could have isolated my chick outside to one of the cabanas and started making out with her. Oh well.

Also, I realized after the fact that I was suffering from "boy-in-a-candy-store-itis." This often overlooked disease is characterized by the guy jumping from one girl to the next because there are so many around, without closing the deal with any. In other words, all I did was take licks from all the tootsy roll lollipops, without every getting to the chewy center of any.

Anyway, by then Host tells me that the chicks he met in the night before had arrived, but that the one he's reserved for me is getting hit on by a lot of guys. So he suggests that I show up in a few minutes, and work on her while he works on her friend.

So I get to them a few minutes later, and true to Host's word, she was really good looking. Unfortunately, she was drunk. I had to drop her a couple of points for that. Yeah, there were a couple of guys hitting on her. I would be able to capture her attention, but since she was so drunk, she couldn't focus for any length of time, and with the other guys running their games, we were all just ****blocking each other.

I decided to try something, since she was complaining about being exhausted, and I was having a hard time communicating with her. I asked her on a scale of 1 - 10, how much energy she had. She said 0. Hmmm.... So I anchored the feeling of having energy on the inside of her wrist, and I created a sliding anchor. I had her notice how as I ran my finger up her wrist, her energy level would increase. Surprisingly, this worked, and I got her to an energy level of 9.

She got super excited, and started telling her friend, "Oh my God, Oh my God. He did this thing with his finger and told me that I would have energy, and now I have energy!"

I tried to get her to come with me outside, since I wanted to get away from all the guys hitting on her, but she didn't want to go, so I just left and went for other targets.

The really strange thing is after raising her energy level, I felt totally drained out for fifteen minutes, almost as if I was in a daze. I talked to Kenrick about this the day after, and he told me that she got the increase in energy by draining my energy. He then showed me how I could do the same thing without using my own energy (basically visualize that I have roots, like a tree, that extend to the center of the earth, and that I have unlimited access to energy from the center of the earth. And that any energy leaving me is instantly recovered from the earth).

After a bit, I start talking to the two guys who were hanging out with the two chicks whom I was playing with (the one who wanted to be a hostess with me, and the one who I played with her tits). The whole time I thought that they were guys from the seminar, so I start telling them that I did the SRT with the girls, etc. They mention to me that the girls are a little annoying, and I agreed with them. I mean, EVERYONE is a LITTLE annoying, and I thought that maybe the girls had rejected them earlier, and I didn't want to make them feel worse by disagreeing with them.

Well as it turned out, the guys were not from the seminar after all, but rather friends with the girls. And I felt that beyond just being friends, they were trying to get the girls into bed but were having trouble. So it was no surprise that later on in the evening, the blond of the two girls approached me, and said, "So... you think we're annoying sometimes?" Oh well, I screwed up. I wasn't in the mood to turn the situation around, so I figured that if I'm going down, I might as well go down in burst of flames, and I tell her, "No... I think you're annoying all the time." I say it with a smile, and then turn around and walk away. Thinking back about it now though, that was just plain mean of me. The girls didn't do anything to deserve my rudeness.

I played with some more girls before getting tired and calling it a night at about 3 in the morning. So I left the club, and started walking back to the hotel. Outside the hotel, I come across two girls going to the club. One of them was dancing as she was walking, so I start dancing while walking backwards and keeping with their pace. They start laughing and I tell them that they're going in the wrong direction. They ask me why is that, and I reply that it's because the club is no longer fun. They ask me why it's no longer fun, and I tell them that it's because I left.

They start laughing, and I tell them that if they want to have some fun, then they should come with me. They start discussing it between themselves, but they take too long to decide, so I tell them "never mind" and I walk away.

I start talking to some other girls while I'm walking back to the hotel, but by then, every other girl was a prostitute, so I decided not to talk to any other girl until I got back to the hotel and went to bed.
 

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Part IV

SATURDAY

Saturday morning I was back in the seminar. I guess word had got around to how Host and I were working so many girls. I had my digital camera with me, and some of the guys saw the pictures of the girls from last night, and even Kenrick was saying really good things about my sarging skills. I'm not going to lie... it felt really good.

A lot of the praise was recorded on video (the seminar is going to be sold as a product). Part of me hopes that Kenrick edits these comments out of the video, because I'm not sure I want everyone watching the video to know that I'm a seducer, but at the same time there is a part of me that really enjoyed the ego boost.

Anyway, we go for lunch, and Host and I decide to try a new plan. After flirting with the girls, we would invite them to meet us at the club at 11:30. So throughout our lunch and dinner breaks, we would approach girls, chat with them for a few minutes, and tell them we have to leave but for them to dress sexy and meet us at the club at 11:30. We probably invited two or three dozen girls.

As I'm walking back to the seminar, after eating lunch, I hear someone calling my name. I turn around, and it's one of the girls from the club yesterday. I didn't recognize her at first, but she tells the guys with me that we had met at the club, and that she thought I was on ecstasy because I had so much energy. She tells them how I took her to meet other people, and we pretended that we were the hosts of the party, and how much fun she had.

She was with two of her female friends, and she invited me and the guys I was with to join them. I tell her that I can't right now, so we exchanged numbers with plans to meet up later on in the evening. Unfortunately, we didn't get a hold of each other. Such is life...

After the seminar was over, we decided to go back to our rooms, get ready, grab a bite to eat, and head out to the club.

As I'm entering my hotel, I see a chick walking a few feet away. I yell out, "STOP!!! Come here!" So she comes over, and I tell her really slowly, "Oh... my... God... you are... so... beautiful. I'm going to take a picture of you - stand over here!" (pointing at where to stand). She goes there and I take a picture of her and then hand over the camera to someone walking by and have them take a picture of us.

I then talk with her for a minute, and she informs me that she is there with three of her female friends. So I tell her to go inside, get ready and have her friends get ready, and that later on I would bring some of my guy friends, and we can all hang out together, and then say to her, "but... (I look in her eye intensely) you're mine!"

She takes a step back, and ran the "instant hard-on" pattern on me. Basically, the "instant hard-on" pattern is where she gets her index finger, puts it on her lower lip, makes an naive look and tilts her head to the side in a naughty way. I've seen a stripper do it once, and a couple of actresses on TV, and every time I just instantly get turned on. It's kind of like a naughty and nice combination that's just killer.

At any rate, she tells me that they are celebrating her 21st birthday. So I take her by the hand to the lobby bar, and tell everyone it's her birthday and I get everyone to sing Happy Birthday for her.

Afterwards I get to my room to get ready, and head out with Host and some of the guys from the seminar to grab a bite to eat.

Of course, along the way we chat with more girls (there were a group of girls walking together in front of us. We just walked up to them, he took two and I took two, and we carried a conversation with them for a couple of blocks. I had my arms around both girls and was just having a blast). And along the way we invited girls to meet us at the club later on that evening.

We decide to get some Japanese food, and we head to a Japanese restaurant. Inside were two girls that we had met yesterday at the club. They remembered us and we talked for a bit.

I wasn't feeling too good that evening (stomach ache), so I head back to the hotel to relax a little before meeting Host and the other guys at the club.

After laying down for a half an hour or so, I leave my room and in the lobby I see the birthday chick, along with her friends. There were three guys talking to her, so I walk up to her and say her name out loud. She turns around, and starts ignoring the guys and talks with me. She introduces me to her friends as the guy who she told them about who sang happy birthday to her.

I started talking to her friends for a few minutes, then I suggest to her friends that we sing happy birthday for her again. They go for it, and we sing happy birthday together. It was really cute, the birthday girl was starting to get embarrassed, but she was enjoying the attention.

She and I chat some more, and I tell her that I've seen her somewhere before. She asks me where we've met, and I tell her that we met in a past life, and then I suggest that we find out how good her memory is, and I ask her how many lifetimes ago we had met. She says "4." I then ask her in which country we met, and she said "Australia." Afterwards, I ask her if she remembers what her name and my name was at the time. She says her name was "Natasha" and I can't remember what name she gave me.

After some more questions, she tells me that she's doing all the remembering, how about if I remember some as well.

So I tell her that I'll share with her our first meeting, and then tell her how it was about noon, and as I walked into the marketplace, all of a sudden I look around and I see her. And in that moment, when our eyes met, time just stood still. And it's like there was a golden bubble that surrounded the two of us, while the whole world just melted away.

And after just looking in each other's eyes for minutes, we slowly walked toward each other. Then, I took her hand (and I took her hand while saying this), and in that moment a tingling started in her palm (started swirling my finger on her hand), and went up through her wrist and elbows and traveled through her whole body.

Afterwards, without a single word being spoken, we kissed, and I said to her, "Beautiful lady, what must I say, what must I do, to make you mine, if but only for a night." And with a smile, she takes my hand and leads me back to her home (I literally had her lead me to a different part of the hotel lobby).

And then we made passionate love (I described to her how amazing the love we made was).

The whole scenario was basically a variation on the Eros Stone Necklace by Bishop.

We were both really getting into the story, my hands were running up and down her arms and waist, and she was running her hand over my chest. We started kissing each other on the cheek and the neck, but when I went for a kiss on the lips she moved her head the side, which I suppose is natural when her friends and a lot of other people were looking at us the whole time. Oh well.

I called up Host to tell him that I'll be at the club soon, and he tells me to hurry up and that the girls are asking for me. Yeah right, I'm thinking.

Anyway, I tell the birthday chick that I'm going to the club, and for her and her friends to meet me there. She tells me that they're waiting for a couple of other friends, but that she'll try to meet me there once they arrive.

So I head out to the club with a couple of guys from the seminar.

It was pretty packed that night, but true to his word, pretty much as soon as I walked into the club, two girls I had seen the night before came up to me and started talking with me. One of them asks me about Host, and I tell her that he's in the club somewhere.

I start approaching girls and talking with them, but this time around a good number of times it was the girls who approached me. Some remembered me from yesterday, and some were the street PU girls whom we invited (I saw about half a dozen of the girls we had invited to meet us at the club).

After a bit, I run into Host, and what a surprise - he was already playing with a group of girls. He sees me and invites me to join the group. We stay in the group for a bit, before we go on to more girls.

Again we separate and regroup throughout the night. I see the girls who I first ran into when I got into the club. I kiss one of the girls on the lips, and tell her that she is so adorable. She tells me that I am so adorable, and kisses me on the lips. But, just like yesterday, I am still suffering from boy-in-a-candy-store-itis, and so I leave to meet some more chicks.
 

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Part V

By the entrance to the club, I see a girl sitting by herself on a sofa, so I sit down next to her. We start talking and having a fun time. When she asks me what I do, I tell her that I'm a hypnotist (okay, maybe that's a little bit of stretch, but I do know hypnosis, and I'm certified in it). She doesn't believe me, so I do the same demo I did on the drunk girl yesterday. By then her female friend comes back, and she starts telling her about this amazing thing that I did, and her friend asks me to show her something like that.

So I did the SRT, and while I was doing it, the original chick says, "Oh my God, I can feel it too!" We hung out for about fifteen minutes or so, and then the first chick tells me, "come on, entertain us some more." I just looked at her for a few seconds, and told her, "excuse me? I wasn't aware that I was your entertainer."

She quickly says, "Oh, no, that's not what I meant. I just meant that you entertain us, and we entertain you." To which I reply, "well, why don't you entertain me for a while." She tells me that she doesn't know how to do the things I do, so I tell her that she can think of something else to do to entertain me, or both of them can give me a kiss. They don't do either, so I get up and leave (hahaha, you should have seen the look of shock on the girls' faces). Almost immediately another guy comes over to talk to them, but they didn't look too pleased to talk with him.

As I'm walking, I see two girls going past me, so I tell them that they're going the wrong direction. They reply that I used the same line on them yesterday. I reply back, "Hmm... did it work then?" They tell me that it didn't, so I suggested that we break the cycle, and told them to come with me. They did, and we hung out for a bit, before I moved to more targets.

I start talking to a guy that I know. He was drunk, got his face right into mine, and said some stuff to me which wasn't very nice. I just smiled at him the whole time without saying anything, or even blinking, but damn I wanted to wipe the spit off my face. After he finishes what he was saying, I tell him goodbye and just leave.

As ashamed as I am to admit this, I let him get to me, and I wasn't interested in talking to any one else the rest of the night. I decided to go back to the hotel and call it a night. On my way out I see the two girls who wanted me to entertain them. I walk up to them, and the first girl says, "Look who's back."

I just ignore her, and tell her what happened with the drunk guy. I then take a step back, and ask her if she acts stupid when she's drunk. She quickly reassures me, and tells me that she doesn't. I say, "Oh good," and then step close to her again.

I tell them that I'm leaving, and she tries to do everything she can to continue the conversation, asking me questions, where I'm going, what hotel I'm staying in, etc.

It was pretty obvious that she wanted me to stay with her longer, or possibly invite her and her friend to another club, but I wasn't in the mood. So I left and called it a night.
 

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Part VI

SUNDAY

After attending the last day of the seminar, I decide to go to a souvenir shop and pick up some stuff for friends and family before leaving. There I met a really cute Bolivian clerk. Actually, she was the first Bolivian girl that I have ever met.

I opened the conversation with her by telling her that I am really pissed off. She asked me why I am pissed, and I told her I arrived in South Beach on Wednesday, and that after all the time I spent here, I barely ran into her now, when the shuttle for my flight was leaving in 15 minutes!

She laughed, and I started using past life seduction and telling her how after searching for each other for so long, we finally find ourselves here. I mean, it can't just be coincidence that I decided to come to this one store, only fifteen minutes before we left. That it was really fate that compelled me to come here so that I can meet her.

So she and I flirt a bit, before I have to go. I had taken some pictures of her and me, and she gave me her e-mail address so that I would e-mail her the pics.

Following that, I head out to catch my shuttle for the flight back home. As it turned out, Host lives about an hour away from me, and he was taking the same exact flight as me. So throughout our flight back we talked to pretty much every girl we saw, and we laughed our eyes out with all the new openers and stuff we plan to do when we get back to Los Angeles.


Well, that was my little adventure in South Beach. I had a blast, and I look forward to going there again (maybe in May). Next on my list is writing up the Las Vegas FR, so expect that in the next week or so.

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It's great that you are discussing PU techniques with other people, I find you will learn a lot from them and can incorporate some of their techniques in your arsenals.

As for street PUs. I find that they are vitually IMPOSSIBLE. It is hard to flag down chicks who are walking on the street, because their mentality is that they have somewhere to get TO and that whatever you say would be an OBSTACLE.

eg: How annoying are those salespeople on the street? You don't want to talk to them because in your mind, you have to get somewhere, UNLESS they are SO INTERESTING that you have to stop.

It is better to follow them to whereever they are going and then do your thing there.

It seems like you have gotten over the opening stage of a sarge, now I think you should work on the rapport building part and the attracting part where you demonstate what a F*CKING COOL dude that you are.

This is where your SS skills will be vitual to this. Work on staying in sets longer and to a stage where chicks seduce YOU. that way, you will have every chick in the room wanting YOU.
 

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Thanks alot Master,

I've got a trip to Austin, TX coming up and you'll field report has given me some ideas to try out. It's a music festival and I'll be at clubs every night.

While I am certainly not as advanced as you are as a seducer (I have yet to even begin to look into patterns, speed seduction, etc.), you're report has given me hope that my trip will be a great way to practice some of the techniques that I've discovered on this site.

So thanks, and keep up the good work.
 

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Good report, MotU. Sounds like you guys had a lot of fun down there. Man I got to make it down to LA and chill with all you guys sometime.

-PDX

PS: The pics in Club PDX were bad ass! Fun stuff.
 

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my god, this has to be the longest post i have ever read on SS. But it was well worth it. I especially loved the birthday part.

One day, i shall be as good as you.
 

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Uniassign wrote,

It's great that you are discussing PU techniques with other people, I find you will learn a lot from them and can incorporate some of their techniques in your arsenals.


Absolutely. Every person has their own style... heck, sometimes two methods that appear opposites still work. So yeah, the more guys you interact with and learn from, the better your game develops.

As for street PUs. I find that they are vitually IMPOSSIBLE. It is hard to flag down chicks who are walking on the street, because their mentality is that they have somewhere to get TO and that whatever you say would be an OBSTACLE.

eg: How annoying are those salespeople on the street? You don't want to talk to them because in your mind, you have to get somewhere, UNLESS they are SO INTERESTING that you have to stop.

It is better to follow them to whereever they are going and then do your thing there.


To be honest, I've never had any more or less difficulty doing street PU versus other venues. For example, the first day in South Beach, I was having as much trouble on the streets as I was in the clubs. And the days after that, the streets were just as easy as the clubs.

If the approach is good enough, it'll work regardless of situation. At least that's my experience.

As to the portion about the DJ being an obstacle because he's doing the approach on the street, I feel that's only perception. If you feel that you are getting in her way and are an obstacle for her to go where she is going, then you are getting in her way and are an obstacle. On the other hand, if you feel that you will make her day by talking to her, then she will feel it as well.

I personnaly love street PUs... I spent an entire night walking the streets of Los Angeles doing nothing but approaches in the street and they were great!

It seems like you have gotten over the opening stage of a sarge, now I think you should work on the rapport building part and the attracting part where you demonstate what a F*CKING COOL dude that you are.

This is where your SS skills will be vitual to this. Work on staying in sets longer and to a stage where chicks seduce YOU. that way, you will have every chick in the room wanting YOU.


That's very interesting... when I'm actually on an outing with a girl, I'm usually with her for a good amount of time, even though the time goes by pretty fast. The average length of my dates/get togethers are 4 hours.

But when I'm actually in a club or something, I don't spend much time with any one chick. I do need to work on that.

As far as having girls in the club wanting me though, and appearing cool, I get the same results with my method. You can't help but achieving that end, when just about every girl in the club appears to be enjoying your company.

I'm aware of Juggler's more laid back style, but for me, I'm just too aggressive. I've tried to be low-key and get the girls to seduce me (Powertrip is EXCELLENT at doing this), but it feels really weird.

Maybe in the future after I've attended Juggler's workshop I'll see it from a different perspective though.

Thanks for the feedback!

Premiere wrote,

I've got a trip to Austin, TX coming up and you'll field report has given me some ideas to try out. It's a music festival and I'll be at clubs every night.


Good luck bro, and keep us posted!

SexPDX wrote,

Good report, MotU. Sounds like you guys had a lot of fun down there. Man I got to make it down to LA and chill with all you guys sometime.
PS: The pics in Club PDX were bad ass! Fun stuff.


Thanks PDX. It was way too fun. I almost feel stupid to write this, but I was laughing so much that at one time I was having tears come down my eyes.

If you're able to make it to LA, we'll definitely have to hang out, and I'm still working out a way to meet up in your area. I almost worked it out where I was going to be in Seattle next month, but I couldn't do it. Oh well...

killerasp wrote,

my god, this has to be the longest post i have ever read on SS. But it was well worth it. I especially loved the birthday part.

One day, i shall be as good as you.


Actually, it's a couple of pages shorter than one of my previous field reports. But yeah, it was very long. I hope that its detail made it a better report, and not some over-bloated posting.

And thank you for your kind words, but why limit yourself to what I can do? Heck, I won't be surprised at all if in the future you're way better than me!

Master of the Universe
 

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Wow, over 400 approaches in just a few days. You have done us proud and you are a shining example of a true DJ living life to the full and never letting fear stop you. Great post.
 

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I'd like to learn some more of these SRT techniques MOTU mentions.
 

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All of that and you didn't even get laid? Even a kiss?

Is this pap in disguise? If not I can see why you and pap are so close. its no wonder those seminars make so much money with guys like you attending.

What a waste of time and money these seminars are, as perfectly illustrated by this thread. If i had to spend that much time to try and get a chick, I think I'd shoot myself or turn gay. Really, its just odd.
 

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You guys meet up 25 minutes from my house and don't let me know? tsk tsk tsk
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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