“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok I'm confused, please help

andyh

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Background:
Met this chick at a party this summer, we talked a lot and we also made some kino and huggin'. Got her msn, we've been talking ocassionly. then i met her at a pub and she was sitting in my lap and i thought she had a high IL. then at newyears she invited me to a dinner/small party. but i couldn't come.

Now, two days ago at msn she asked me to come to the pub with her (not a date, we often go out with our friends it's just that her friends an my haven't went out together), i got her number and told her i call to set things up. so we went out and she acted all interested in me. but she was waiting and calling for some more friends to come, one of em was a guy, didn't care tough(she was acting interested in me) when he came she was a little mad at him, didn't answer him and stuff.

she was talking to me more than him during the whole night but they went away for like 5 min two times and i dunno what they did. then later her friends told me that they were bf/gf but she didn't want it to come out(player?? does she want to keep her opportunities open??)

to the question. Is she worth pursuing? she has a bf but her signals are stronger than anything i've ever seen before. i caught her looking into my eyes a couple times and then we got real deep eye contact. i know yall prolly say i'ma next her but i don't wanna give up so easy. i don't belive she's ljbf'ed me cuz we've only talked like 5 times.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Kwah

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**** it dude, shes mind ****ing you. Get out while you still can.

If she wants you she'll come for you, make her actually prove it.
 

xanderbaz

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It's almost impossible to get out of the friends zone... Notice the word almost, though. :)
Do what you feel like doing, as long as it's not AFC shiz. All in all, it should be a good experience for you.
 
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