backbreaker
Master Don Juan
in my senior year of high school I started working as a tech at best buy and to make a long story short, there was a cute girl there that was looking at me.
now, the girl was.. honestly.. maybe an HB6-6.5. Not ugly at all, but I mean, there was nothing about her that just was wow. I was dating someone at the time but even if i wasn't, I mean.. she wouldn't have been first in the pecking order.
HOwever, we started to hang out as friends and she introduced me to the girl that brought me here.. better stated she re introduced me, her and i knew each other from summer camp we both went to, and she was, unlike the girlt hat introduced me, smoking hot. she knew it, her friend knew it.. everyone knew it. this girl was the goods.
now like every other guy who knew the two of them, I wanted to try to use the friend girl to get in with the hot girl. the hot girl and i started to talk now and then and the girl that introduced me, didn't like it. she started doing some **** tom e, push pull, basically made me have sex with her , she had this **** down pack.
In short. with some very good sex combined with the perfect hot /cold /BPD like behaviors that she displayed towards me, push pull to perfection, she got me to all but forget about the hot girl, at least for a while. i wanted to now date this girl, she did a number on me.
the thing is.. once you start that **** it doesn't cut off. she was a horrible GF and we ended up breaking up.
My point is, I mean she thought i was cute but she never was crazy about me in the first place. the only reason she went so hard after me is beucase I wanted to bone her friend. I'm quite sure I was the 30th guy who met her and thought she was cute, but then met her friend and just lost just about all interest in her.
her bat**** crazy in love push pull behavior is a coping mechanism to deal with that. In short, she has learned with her methods, how to engineer the reaction out of guys that her hot friend does so just by being hot. If she did not develop this, she would be nothing more than a runner for the hot girl to fetch out new men to show me.
I call these girls 2nd violin girls. meaning a girl who has a friend that is ridiculously hot in comparison to everyone else around them. in a string oreasctrha you have 2 violins, first and 2nd.. The first violin plays the melody or the main piece of the song 90% of the time and the 2nd violin generally plays off that, with someone that is in harmony with the first violin yet not the main melody of the song.
The reason I call them 2nd violin girls is because anyone who has ever played the violin (like myself) hates being 2nd violin. it's just a bad deal around. The 2nd violin chair is always, at least i was, trying to figure out a way to get to first violin.
These are girls that you need to avoid like the plague. They are used to guys over looking them for their hot friend, and they have developed defense tactics.. none of which are good or productive.. to keep you interested.
From a practicality standpoint, this isn't going to really effect guys that live in mid major to major metropolitcan cities like LA or Atlanta or NY or Phoneix or anything like that.. there are more than enough hot girls to go around. My wife is very hot but her friends aren't chopped liver at all. at least a few of them. However if you are like, in little rock where i am from with this story above.. and you got 2-3 girls that are like 5's or 6's and their best friend is a legit 9... run.
now, the girl was.. honestly.. maybe an HB6-6.5. Not ugly at all, but I mean, there was nothing about her that just was wow. I was dating someone at the time but even if i wasn't, I mean.. she wouldn't have been first in the pecking order.
HOwever, we started to hang out as friends and she introduced me to the girl that brought me here.. better stated she re introduced me, her and i knew each other from summer camp we both went to, and she was, unlike the girlt hat introduced me, smoking hot. she knew it, her friend knew it.. everyone knew it. this girl was the goods.
now like every other guy who knew the two of them, I wanted to try to use the friend girl to get in with the hot girl. the hot girl and i started to talk now and then and the girl that introduced me, didn't like it. she started doing some **** tom e, push pull, basically made me have sex with her , she had this **** down pack.
In short. with some very good sex combined with the perfect hot /cold /BPD like behaviors that she displayed towards me, push pull to perfection, she got me to all but forget about the hot girl, at least for a while. i wanted to now date this girl, she did a number on me.
the thing is.. once you start that **** it doesn't cut off. she was a horrible GF and we ended up breaking up.
My point is, I mean she thought i was cute but she never was crazy about me in the first place. the only reason she went so hard after me is beucase I wanted to bone her friend. I'm quite sure I was the 30th guy who met her and thought she was cute, but then met her friend and just lost just about all interest in her.
her bat**** crazy in love push pull behavior is a coping mechanism to deal with that. In short, she has learned with her methods, how to engineer the reaction out of guys that her hot friend does so just by being hot. If she did not develop this, she would be nothing more than a runner for the hot girl to fetch out new men to show me.
I call these girls 2nd violin girls. meaning a girl who has a friend that is ridiculously hot in comparison to everyone else around them. in a string oreasctrha you have 2 violins, first and 2nd.. The first violin plays the melody or the main piece of the song 90% of the time and the 2nd violin generally plays off that, with someone that is in harmony with the first violin yet not the main melody of the song.
The reason I call them 2nd violin girls is because anyone who has ever played the violin (like myself) hates being 2nd violin. it's just a bad deal around. The 2nd violin chair is always, at least i was, trying to figure out a way to get to first violin.
These are girls that you need to avoid like the plague. They are used to guys over looking them for their hot friend, and they have developed defense tactics.. none of which are good or productive.. to keep you interested.
From a practicality standpoint, this isn't going to really effect guys that live in mid major to major metropolitcan cities like LA or Atlanta or NY or Phoneix or anything like that.. there are more than enough hot girls to go around. My wife is very hot but her friends aren't chopped liver at all. at least a few of them. However if you are like, in little rock where i am from with this story above.. and you got 2-3 girls that are like 5's or 6's and their best friend is a legit 9... run.
