“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What to say to girls who are subconcious about their looks

jc7875

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I tried i love your eyes.. but she doesnt believe me, she thinks she is ugly .. what can i say to cheer her up guys ?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Hellshock

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Attention *****. She's fishing for compliments, and wants you to shower her with them. Be sparse with the compliments, and when you do give her one, make sure it's about something other than her looks. Jewellery, a new outfit, hairstyle, could be anything. Using compliments rarely will increase the effectiveness of them tenfold, and as long as you keep them off her looks, she should have no reason to go on about being ugly.

And in the instance she does, agree with her, flash a smile and make sure she knows your being sarcastic.
 

USSOCOM

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Hellshock was on the right track, dont forget that women aren't just objects they have a personality too (although sometimes not much of one). Be sure to compliment her mind too, such as humor, smarts etc.
 

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Yeah, give a compliment on something she can control, instead of just her body. Once I noticed that a girl had perfectly matched the color of her shoes and shirt, and I commented on it. It totally made her day. :) Little things like this make you look really good, as long as they're used sparingly. Once she's gotten complimented enough, it stops seeming special. You don't want that.
 

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she thinks she is ugly
There's some truth to everything. And yes, she's fishing for compliments. I take it she's not your girlfriend, I wouldn't waste my time.
 
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