I was thinking about the last thread I started - the woman who sent her Russian adoptee back and now has to pay child support - and I started doing some digging online. It seems that there are some mothers who already have kids, and want to adopt a kid, but not want to (or not able to) have another bio kid.

It seems to me that even if a family didn't have any kids, from the father's point of view, adopting a kid is like being a party to cuckoldery. I suppose that if a man can't have any kids - or feels that he is too old to put up with a baby, etc., - that it could make sense to get cuckolded. But in the situation I mentioned, there already are his own (presumably) kids, and that it seems like the wife is making a demand that to keep the marriage together - which of course, includes access to the golden vajaja - that he submit to this cuckoldery.

My opinion: