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Are spinsters just deluding themselves by shaming marriage?

MatureDJ

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http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2012/...he-politics-of-the-single-by-choice-movement/

At 38, I feel more powerful and sexier and in control than I have ever felt…My life is a best-kept secret, and I wouldn’t trade it. As a single person, the world is my oyster. I’m just sorry that people who are married don’t have that freedom.
Is it really that spinsters are unhappy, but delude themselves that they have all this "freedom" - and feel the need to shame happily married couples?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dear MDJ,
If she is spinning Plates,then she can have great life at any age...I quite agree with her point of view here,and think it ties in neatly,with the thread on this topic currently running.
 

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dear MDJ,
Are you making some Freudian slip here? Your question seems to imply that Marriage should be the ultimate objective of all Women,that is contra-intuitive to a DJ's Philosophy isn't it?
 

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Scaramouche said:
dear MDJ,
Are you making some Freudian slip here? Your question seems to imply that Marriage should be the ultimate objective of all Women,that is contra-intuitive to a DJ's Philosophy isn't it?

I think the point the OP was making perhaps, that he didnt articulate precisely, is that this woman has actively rejected the marriage/partnership world, and she should know that her options are limited on the marriage front, and that she is trying to perhaps talk her self into the belief that life is better single than married rather than accept that through her own coquette-ish behaviour, she has arrived at a place where she is now unable to be accepted as a bride, and to settle down in to married/maternal domesticity.

In other words, shes only fit for pumpdump with a bad looking chump.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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TonyBaloney said:
I think the point the OP was making perhaps, that he didnt articulate precisely, is that this woman has actively rejected the marriage/partnership world, and she should know that her options are limited on the marriage front, and that she is trying to perhaps talk her self into the belief that life is better single than married rather than accept that through her own coquette-ish behaviour, she has arrived at a place where she is now unable to be accepted as a bride, and to settle down in to married/maternal domesticity.

In other words, shes only fit for pumpdump with a bad looking chump.
BINGO! :up:
 

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