Met this Persian woman at the gym tonight.
About 38, big blond hair (fake of course), pretty, about an eight.
We started chatting when I asked her some question I knew the answer to (how to use the big ball for ab training). She gave me a run though which provided a ton of opportunities to poke, neg, play, show interest ... Will use this again. Asked her for coffee, she went, chatted about 40 minutes ... now the meat!

I let her talk about herself mostly, when internet dating came up, she said covering her face "god what will you think of me". "I used internet dating for one night stands". Then she goes on to say she prefers the term f-buddies to friends with benefits because friendship can lead to more.
Then she gives me her number, goes back and forth of sex in a relationship, or casual. Says to text, then says I'll see you at the club, then says maybe we can go out. Then has to go, kisses me on both cheeks and replies "thank you" to my ping text 20 minutes later.

I'm thinking ... player, but in a childish kind of way.

BTW, this woman is a pharmacologist (masters degree), but I am suspicious as she's worried about paying rent.
A lot of the conversation was about men hitting on her and she on to them.

Normally, I'd not give her the time of day, but I've been on bread and water (my choice) for 3 months and I'm starting to go a little squirrelly!

Thoughts,

Opinions on what she is, and how to empty the prostate!

SH

It's good that you've got your red-flag radar primed for action.

I think she's keen to fvck you but wants to make it very clear that she doesn't want a serious relationship. I've been there and you just have to play it super cool.
If she raises the topic of other dudes, just laugh it off and be unaffected.
After all, you don't want to marry the cvnt, you just need a good empty out.

This girl I'm banging at the moment is 35 with two kids. The two times I've seen her, she says sh!t like: "I wonder what younger guys would be like, I mean really young. I reckon they'd just do what they're told with no fuss and that would be perfect!"
I just agree, laugh about it, neg her about it, even encourage her to do it. But each time, she's been choking on my d!ck later that night.

Once again, you just want to fvck her, so in these cases I lower the standards of behaviour I expect from women and just pump 'n' dump.

I'm still on the fence if she's a digger / gamer or just horny
She told me to beware that woman are often after money on the internet. That one made me smile inside. Whew, glad she told me that!
Matters not, she made it into the seminal toilet only bucket within the first three minutes of conversation after the gym.

I will be able to boink her, I'm certain (unless another gets there first). However, I'll know for sure what she's about if she asks for a condom (I'll play empty pocket till the last second just out of curiosity). If she doesn't care about it, then she's the worst kind of player / digger scum. If she's adamant about it before we get there, then I'll say you are right.

Funny how things go. On Sunday, I had no options on the go. Within the 3 days, there's been 4 vaginas drop from the sky. I'm pleased though, I really didn't want to use the internet again!

SH

SecondHalf said:

Funny how things go. On Sunday, I had no options on the go. Within the 3 days, there's been 4 vaginas drop from the sky. I'm pleased though, I really didn't want to use the internet again!

SH

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Peaks and troughs, SH, peaks and troughs.

I was in such a low from about July last year until March this year. I think I banged only three chicks.
Then, suddenly in March, I've had girls literally throwing their puzzy at me.
I've fvcked seven since then and working on a few more.

Incidentally, it coincided with me losing a bit of weight and working out more. It's so important to stay trim and toned.

In summary then, given that I believe she's a nutty / immature player, I'm going to wait a couple days to text (she prefers text), see where the conversation leads.

I will add that she did keep putting on the pouty lip that she has little experience dealing with mature men, and still relies on the tricks of her youth where I had no doubt she was pretty cute.

I'll play this one aloof, superficial, financially stable meatball who may be exploitable. Then I'll dash.

However GP, if it's just a sex thing she's after, GR8, I won't dash but dress up, and have fun!

Will update this thread after conclusion (which ever ending).

SH