Cheating on your WIFE!

[5string]

Yep, I said WIFE!

If you desire to cheat on your wife, end it and then go do it. To sit here and advise a guy who is cheating on his WIFE and how to get away with it or keep it under wraps is fvckin wrong.

So many guys on here will do absolutely anything to slip their pecker into a new and different greeeezy little hole it's astounding. What's more astounding is that they don't give a fvck who they hurt, even themselves. All for a one hour bone dance.

You guys can go ahead and flame me as I have you.

Got any principles, morals or even ethics?

This just hit's too close to home. I have seen too much pain and heartache because somebody can't resist the power and magnetism of a vagina. You hurt yourself, your spouse and even your kids. Is it really worth it?

[Gro0ver]

I understand what you're saying, I feel in a similar way about the topic but people are different. Everyone has self destructive habits, and for people who are falling into temptation then this type of rant isn't actually going to help anyone.

It's a bit like shouting at an obese person that they're a disgrace and they need to look in the mirror and realise how pathetically weak they are etc etc. You'd just be pushing them towards a metaphoircal mound of cheeseburgers.

Saying that I don't think giving advice on how to cheat on your wife is very DJish at all.

[5string]

I understand what you're saying, I feel in a similar way about the topic but people are different. Everyone has self destructive habits, and for people who are falling into temptation then this type of rant isn't actually going to help anyone.

It's a bit like shouting at an obese person that they're a disgrace and they need to look in the mirror and realise how pathetically weak they are etc etc. You'd just be pushing them towards a metaphoircal mound of cheeseburgers.

Saying that I don't think giving advice on how to cheat on your wife is very DJish at all.OK. See what you are saying and respect it. As far as this rant not helping anyone is concerned, think about it. Does anything good come out of cheating on your wife? What if you get busted? What if you yourself feel regret? Self esteem issues?

I'm just saying, if you need to cheat, you should not be married in the first place as you are fooling not only yourself, but your wife.

[samspade]

I'm just saying, if you need to cheat, you should not be married in the first place as you are fooling not only yourself, but your wife.

I agree with this. But when people come asking for advice, why not explain all the risks instead of immediately flaming them?

Imagine if a guy posted, "I want to raw dog this girl I just met and she said she'd let me. Should I?" Some people will eviscerate him for having unprotected sex and tell him if he gets HIV or knocks her up, he deserves it. Maybe so. Why not just say "consider the risks, dude. STDs, pregnancy, etc. Yeah you can do it and you may get away with it but consider the risks - to both of you."

Same with cheating. A lot of people do it and a lot of people are thinking of doing it. Calling him a scumbag won't necessarily stop him. But if you help him think with the big head about all the risks, he may reconsider. And yes you can explain to him that maybe he should just get a divorce. But I think to go ballistics on a guy isn't going to change his mind. Deep down he knows he's betraying his wife. But he hasn't thought through all the consequences.

[DavenJuan]

I agree with 5string, but the reality is temptation is real. we all fight temptation, and none of us above it.

though we have a forum like this one to help one another grow, the truth is forums like these could stunt that growth. the true message consistently gets buried behind "how to get laid" and "fvcking as many women as possible".

Ideally, once we one has obtained the level of success we'ved hoped for, we can now find a true sense of happiness as it relates to "relationships". However, we read threads, and get advice from others and once weve seen a glimpse of success, we dont know how to turn off the faucet. confidence no longer comes from self, but is defined from women. and some of us have moved from being a slave to our self concious, to becoming a slave to the vagina.

We finally get women, and then we want MORE. the young male who before couldnt get laid to save his life, now associates accomplishment with the number of women he sleeps with. and in truth, has not grown at all as it relates to becoming a true alpha male with self worth and respect.


We need to use these forums to educate, not only others but ourselves from others misfortunes and success.

[Desdinova]

I'm just saying, if you need to cheat, you should not be married in the first place as you are fooling not only yourself, but your wife.

It's really not as cut and dry as you make it out to be. Your marriage may be fine, but what about the marriages that have gone to 5hit? It's not easy to just dump out of a marriage that you've put effort into and even raised children in. You've signed a legal contract and perhaps even gone into a mortgage together, bought furniture together, created joint bank accounts, and the list continues. That's a lot of 5hit to undo.

There are men out there who will cheat on their wives in the moment that a dripping pu55y waves in front of their nose. There are also those who are frustrated with their wives' drinking problems, drug addictions, gambling addictions, depression, selfishness, and whatever other major defects she has. There's always the possibility that she could fix those problems in her life. Would you want to be faithful to a woman like that? Would you love her so much that you'd be willing to put off sex until she fixes her problems? If ever?

Marriage creates many complications and one must decide how to handle those complications. An affair could be a band-aid for a temporary problem, or it could be the ending of the marriage.

[Spinning Spinning]

Don't underestimate the power of testosterone and remember everyone is different. Testo can mess with your mind bigtime.

[Lexington]

A couple of scenarios to consider:

1) You're on a business trip somewhere and you're staying at a hotel. You decide to go grab a few drinks at the hotel bar. There you start chatting up a decently attractive woman who's staying at the same hotel. You've got nothing better to do so you flirt with her for a bit. Pretty soon you're really hitting it off. She's all yours if you want to tap that ass.

2) You've been married for a long time now. You've got a couple kids who are off at college. Your wife is still attractive but age has taken its toll on her looks as it does on everyone's. She's away visiting her parents and you have the house all to yourself. You have a decent disposable income to play with. With a phone call and a few hundred bucks, you could have a smokin' hot 21 year old come over and fvck you like you're a frat boy on Friday night.

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In both scenarios, the only way your wife can find out is if you tell her (I guess in scenario 2 the neighbors could spy on you but let's assume you were extremely careful).

Discuss.

[Colossus]

Reverse both of those scenarios and tell me how you'd react to your wife screwing another dude behind your back.

Unlike the storybook concept of "honor", most people's morals and ethics are only as strong as the situation dictates. Rarely is anything ever black and white. There are cases where the cheater is just acting utterly selfish and impulsively, and there are some scenarios where cheating seems pretty damn justifiable.

It's easy to sit on a high horse and say "well if you wanted to cheat your shouldn't have gotten married", but I'm sure cheating wasnt on their mind when they took their vows. Temptation, testosterone, and opportunity can get the better of anyone.

I'm certainly not defending cheating, but I'm not a moralizer either, because I know I'm subject to the same temptations as any other man given the right circumstances.

We'd like to think that our ethical code is so strong we would never cheat on our wife, but man that is dangerous and delusional thinking. Fidelity is a daily, sometimes momentary decision. I think a good rule of thumb is don't do something you wouldn't want your wife doing to you. That's kinda what marriage is about.

[bmp2cpm]

1) Marriage is a very fragile thing. It doesn't take much to mess up your marriage or someone else's.
2) Infidelity occurs in marriages a lot more than most would think.
3) I used to think that the married person who cheats is solely responsible for the infidelity. But as I'm a little older and wiser, I realize the marrried person who doesn't cheat also had a role in the infidelity. It takes two people to make a marriage work or to destroy it. There are exceptions to the rule, but in most cases, I think this is true.
4) People in affairs tend to be in fogs. They're not seeing things clearly, nor thinking clearly. This can last for months to years.
5) While infidelity is one of the most self-destructive things you can do to yourself, many people will do it at least once in their lifetime.
6) The grass is always greener on the other side. But when you get to the other side and once you're out of the fog, you realize the other side is just as crappy as the side you came from.

[Bible_Belt]

The Bible's most noted adultery was David and Bathsheba. David was God's chosen king, slayer of Goliath, and direct bloodline to Christ. He is the good guy. And yet he still commits adultery, and even worse sends his men into a battle just trying to cover up his scandal, and several of them die. The message is clear that what he does is a bad thing, but yet at the same time that does not make him a bad person. Good people do bad things, but that does not necessarily make them bad people.

[Victory Unlimited]

Hey 5String, I'm in TOTAL agreement with you on this. I understand that there can be some grey areas in regards to maintaining marital fidelity, but when guys GLADLY go for new pussssy just because they can, then I'd have to question their purposes for getting (and STAYING) married in the first place.

Again, I agree wholeheartedly with you 5String. BUT...just for the sake of amusing myself, let me do some "play-acting" and give you a few "fictitious" responses to the points that you made in your original post.

In the following commentary below, Victory Unlimited temporarily plays the role of the average, composite, So Suave poster number 368 (also known as Mr. Super-Alpha Key Board Jockey Dude!"


Cheating on your WIFE!
Yep, I said WIFE!

If you desire to cheat on your wife, end it and then go do it. To sit here and advise a guy who is cheating on his WIFE and how to get away with it or keep it under wraps is fvckin wrong.



"No, 5string, you're incorrect because "right" and "wrong" are value judgments. Altruism can be easily explained away by reading the book "The Selfish Gene" 25 times in one night. Try it. I did. It'll show you that guys who believe like you do only do so because they're too ego-invested in their own self-righteousness!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!


So many guys on here will do absolutely anything to slip their pecker into a new and different greeeezy little hole it's astounding. What's more astounding is that they don't give a fvck who they hurt, even themselves. All for a one hour bone dance.


"Hey! You better stop talkin' 'bout us chasing Almighty Pusssssy like that! And another thing: Just because I came OUT of a pussssy and I've spent every waking moment of my whole life tryin' to find ways to climb back into one NO MATTER WHAT THE COST---------that doesn't make me a slave. No, in fact, I think that's what makes ME an "Alpha" and everybody else who thinks differently than me a lowly "beta"!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!


You guys can go ahead and flame me as I have you.

"Yeah! You're damn right we're gonna flame you! Why? Because NOW that I've finally found a way to fall a$$ backwards (probably mostly by mistake...) into some cootchie twice in one year---------there's NO turning back now. I'm convinced that NOTHING else in life is more important to me as a MATURE man than trying to find out where my next piece of pusssssyy is gonna come from!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!

Got any principles, morals or even ethics?

"No I don't. And neither should you! I told you before:REAL MEN don't let "feminized concepts" like principles, morals, and ethics stand between them and random pieces of pussssy! You obviously married one woman because you don't have what it takes to date and chase 37 heartless, hoe-type chicks nonstop for the rest of your life like I can!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!

This just hit's too close to home. I have seen too much pain and heartache because somebody can't resist the power and magnetism of a vagina. You hurt yourself, your spouse and even your kids. Is it really worth it?

"Hell yeah, it's worth it, man! Why would I let something like RATIONAL thought and my OVERALL best interest get in the way of me and my pursuit of pleasure. After all: Everybody knows that men are better people than women, anyway. Why? Because women are slaves to their emotions, while we men are only slaves to our Dikks-------so that obviously means that we're much more evolved!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!

This concludes Victory Unlimited's attempt to channel the fictitious responses of Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude.

Carry on.

[5string]

Victory

One of the best posts ever brother! +1 rep and well deserved. You're the man.

[Lexington]

Some of the gents on this thread protest too much.

Hmm....are the wifeys checking up on your internet activity, fellas?

The outrage expressed here seems a little over the top. We get it...cheating is bad. You can step off the soap box now.

[Burroughs]

its strange how men have become women.

faithfulness is for women

men are supposed to cheat...the minute you as a man LOSE THE DESIRE TO FVCK A HOT PIECE OF AZZ AND ENDEAVOR TO DO SO you are no longer a man.

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

[Social_Leper]

"Hey! You better stop talkin' 'bout us chasing Almighty Pusssssy like that! And another thing: Just because I came OUT of a pussssy and I've spent every waking moment of my whole life tryin' to find ways to climb back into one NO MATTER WHAT THE COST---------that doesn't make me a slave. No, in fact, I think that's what makes ME an "Alpha" and everybody else who thinks differently than me a lowly "beta"!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!




"No I don't. And neither should you! I told you before:REAL MEN don't let "feminized concepts" like principles, morals, and ethics stand between them and random pieces of pussssy! You obviously married one woman because you don't have what it takes to date and chase 37 heartless, hoe-type chicks nonstop for the rest of your life like I can!" says Mr.Super-ALPHA Key Board Jockey Dude!



almost identical to...


its strange how men have become women.

faithfulness is for women

men are supposed to cheat...the minute you as a man LOSE THE DESIRE TO FVCK A HOT PIECE OF AZZ AND ENDEAVOR TO DO SO you are no longer a man.

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

Except Borroughs is serious.

Women want to be with a man who could cheat (options demonstrate value), not one who will cheat.

[Burroughs]

Women want to be with a man who could cheat (options demonstrate value), not one who will cheat.

just verbal semantics

so be the guy who COULD cheat just don't be mad when your wife DOES cheat

marriage these days for everyone is equivalent to going steady 40 years ago...nothing more nothing less...there is no religious nor moral underpinnings anymore save for what benefits the individual...only a fool of a man doesn't realize this and builds a dream castle around what is a shaky contract at best.

[( . )( . )]

Mr Burroughs nailed it.

I'm 100% behind the push to be the better man that this site promotes but I'm very much disagreeing with the word "cheat". Haven't men of power and worth always had crumpet on the side since beta's created the institution of marriage? Believe it or not men can differentiate sex and emotions.

Why can't I truly love my T-bone steak but have a greasy burger now and then?

Got any principles, morals or even ethics?
Absolutely, but mine differ from yours.

Btw on a side note where are all the older women parroting to the younger women "Dont cheat"?

[Desdinova]

Believe it or not men can differentiate sex and emotions.

This is a really interesting statement when it comes to cheating. When I was screwing around on my ex, I was able to keep emotions out of my affair. However, my mistress was not able to do so. She flat out told me that she was falling in love with me. In the emails I found between my ex and the guy she cheated with, they were planning a life and family together.

Sex really does make an emotional connection with women. If the woman cheats, the marriage is basically finished. If the man cheats, the marriage could easily continue successfully for years.

where are all the older women parroting to the younger women "Dont cheat"?

There are none. Instead they're saying "You go girl! You do what makes you happy!" Yet another thing I saw in my ex's emails.

[AlNess]

its strange how men have become women.

faithfulness is for women

men are supposed to cheat...the minute you as a man LOSE THE DESIRE TO FVCK A HOT PIECE OF AZZ AND ENDEAVOR TO DO SO you are no longer a man.

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

:crackup:

The statement quoted above has got to be one of the biggest loads of horse $hit I've seen shoveled on this forum yet.

:crackup: Oh man...

[Burroughs]

Guys like 'Allness' become nominated for chump of the year

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093

they are obedient white knights who change diapers, make soup, mop the floor..while their wives bang men like me :):):)

[AlNess]

Guys like 'Allness' become nominated for chump of the year

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093

they are obedient white knights who change diapers, make soup, mop the floor..while their wives bang men like me :):):)

And that's why you're on a internet forum carrying on with the thought process and values commonly seen in high school boys...

[Burroughs]

And that's why you're on a internet forum carrying on with the thought process and values commonly seen in high school boys...

you're on the forum too remember... or did you forget?

only difference is your wife is next to me and I just came on her face bwahahaha :)

better the mentality of a high school boy that a puzzified middle aged white knight like you any day

...allness you are the type of upstanding, taxpaying, beta provider, khaki wearing citizen that gets cheated on everyday of the week...and then cry about it later wondering why... :)

[AlNess]

though we have a forum like this one to help one another grow, the truth is forums like these could stunt that growth. the true message consistently gets buried behind "how to get laid" and "fvcking as many women as possible".

This is one of the most accurate statements I ever read about forums like this one.

Even in the Mature Man forum, one can sometimes see some people taking DJ philosophy to a misinterpreted extreme that ultimately results in the embracing of pubescent values.

If you've set out to take a big step in life...whether it's in a career, parenting, fitness, education...do it right or don't do it at all. That applies just as much to giving your word in marriage or a serious relationship.

It's understandable to be a man who your wife thinks could be wanted by other women. But if you're messing around with other women behind your wife's back, you're not only being a dishonest small man...you're also fueling the fires of feminism.

[( . )( . )]

It's understandable to be a man who your wife thinks could be wanted by other women. But if you're messing around with other women behind your wife's back, you're not only being a dishonest small man...you're also fueling the fires of feminism.

Nah, you sound like a chump. "small man"? Is that being ironic, it's like an unwritten, unspoken rule throughout history that the "big man" has always had some form of tail on the side.

Not to mention the fact you seem to be confusing the emotions women tie to sex with men's ability to phuck and forget.

How's about the rest of us share your "word is bond, one woman man herp derp" type attitude when ALL Western women start acting like this to actually match your one sided sentiments?

http://j-walk.com/other/goodwife/images/goodwifeguide.gif



Women have always and will always share top tier males..deal with it.

[HariPoter13]

its strange how men have become women.

faithfulness is for women

men are supposed to cheat...the minute you as a man LOSE THE DESIRE TO FVCK A HOT PIECE OF AZZ AND ENDEAVOR TO DO SO you are no longer a man.

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Burroughs again. **** yes.

[Social_Leper]

Btw on a side note where are all the older women parroting to the younger women "Dont cheat"?

Since when did we hold ourselves to the same standard of behaviour as women?

[( . )( . )]

Since when did we hold ourselves to the same standard of behaviour as women?

I think you missed my point, besides who says this recurring theme of one gender alone spouting "dont cheat" is a matter of having "standards"?

What some call principles I'm sure others call retard logic.

[DavenJuan]

The definition of "cheating" can be percieved differently. Just as the opinion by some members posting here that says that "men are suppose to cheat".

What really comes into question is what expectations have you set before youve entered into said relationship? If your woman understands the dynamics, and realizes that you are only bringing a certain level of commitment to that relationship, then i can understand justifying "cheating". YOU, as the alpha male, have set your boundaries, without deceit and deception. The very fact of "creeping" itself is defined as passive.

However, if you blatantly set a level of expectation from yourself and made a promise to someone you claim to "love", and completely disregard your word, your bond, then that questions the very foundation of "MAN" that you claim you are by cheating.

I dont question that men have desires for other women. I dont question that men wont find themselves in situations where they have the opportunity to bang other women. What I am questioning, can man find more VALUE at home, than to jeopordize losing that for a piece of strange?

The reality is, men and women DO cheat. ALL THE TIME. it is something that we all will have to deal with at some point in our lives, whether it be us the cheater, or the cheated.


I believe it was Burroughs who said that "men can separate sex and their emotions". I agree with that statement. however I question if the entire "cheating" issue is soley based on jeorpordizing your emotion as much as other things.

Whether or not men CAN cheat and seperate their emotions from that is not important, because i think we can all agree that yes, we can. The issue is how those actions are percieved by the ones we love. And what consequences presents themselves from our actions.

If we KNOW, that women cannot seperate these things, how do we ever expect them to understand that very notion...?

[Social_Leper]

The definition of "cheating" can be percieved differently. Just as the opinion by some members posting here that says that "men are suppose to cheat".

What really comes into question is what expectations have you set before youve entered into said relationship? If your woman understands the dynamics, and realizes that you are only bringing a certain level of commitment to that relationship, then i can understand justifying "cheating". YOU, as the alpha male, have set your boundaries, without deceit and deception. The very fact of "creeping" itself is defined as passive.

However, if you blatantly set a level of expectation from yourself and made a promise to someone you claim to "love", and completely disregard your word, your bond, then that questions the very foundation of "MAN" that you claim you are by cheating.


Thank you for articulating what I was unable to. There is nothing manly, or 'alpha' about lies and deception.

[Reyaj]

This is a very controversial subject.... Let me give you all my perspective on this. I will preface this by saying that I am in an LTR, looking to get married and do cheat...

The mindset I have has been arrived at through observation, experience, and analysis which has formed my point of view.

First let me highlight the posts thus far in this thread that are common trains of thought whenever the topic of cheating arises....


5) While infidelity is one of the most self-destructive things you can do to yourself, many people will do it at least once in their lifetime.

This is absolutely true. Some of the greatest men in history have been proven to have cheated. I'd like to think just as many have never got caught (this should be the goal) so all in all it is most men in general!

For those of you who want to refute this... just think to your own friends and families... and again this is only what has come out!

The Bible's most noted adultery was David and Bathsheba. David was God's chosen king, slayer of Goliath, and direct bloodline to Christ. He is the good guy. And yet he still commits adultery, and even worse sends his men into a battle just trying to cover up his scandal, and several of them die. The message is clear that what he does is a bad thing, but yet at the same time that does not make him a bad person. Good people do bad things, but that does not necessarily make them bad people.


Again I rest my case...

6) The grass is always greener on the other side. But when you get to the other side and once you're out of the fog, you realize the other side is just as crappy as the side you came from.

This is also true... frankly because of society there is no ideal situation. What I have found to be key is understanding things as they are, and then developing the proper mindset. You'll see what I mean as I continue below:

Hey 5String, I'm in TOTAL agreement with you on this. I understand that there can be some grey areas in regards to maintaining marital fidelity, but when guys GLADLY go for new pussssy just because they can, then I'd have to question their purposes for getting (and STAYING) married in the first place.


Here is why I do it and I am being quite frank with you..... I am very attracted to females..... I am attracted to the game of seduction and I get a high out of being able to get into a girl's pants. A lot of these girls I am really just attracted to sexually... I would never LTR them or think about having them raise my children. I have an LTR who is perfect for that and fits well with those aspects of my life (family, friendship, emotional connection etc..)

Would I like it if she did this to me? Absolutely not! lol... Does that make me a hypocrite.... I suppose.. However Men and Women are different species all together!

Believe it or not men can differentiate sex and emotions.

That's what it comes down to folks.... I can have mind blowing sex with a girl I picked up somewhere.... and never see her again without any issue.... I'll never forget the first time I cheated on my LTR (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171196) (and I mean went all the way, the underlined text is a link to the post I made)

I was wondering if I'd feel any guilt or what not... and I really didn't... I understand that it was just sex to me.... the game.... I didn't promise the girl an LTR or anything... she slept with me because she wanted to..and vice versa

The fact is when I get married I intend to be the head of the household and the bread winner. I will put my family before any pvssy.... For those who are married for a while can understand how mundane and taxing this life can be... that is why cheating provides an outlet...

A lot of women (or at least the 1 I am with) wants to have a family and that will satisfy her goals in life.

Now again re-read what I said.... my family comes first.... so I would never put off any family responsibility for a piece of assss... when I do get married I can only see myself cheating when its convenient (like others say business trips, time off etc..) For those of you saying its impossible to do this... I've already been doing this in my LTR.. I've had several chances at scoring that I had to leave because my gf had issues she needed me for.

Following this code has kept everything intact. (Anyone who watches Dexter its the same code principal)

Sex really does make an emotional connection with women. If the woman cheats, the marriage is basically finished. If the man cheats, the marriage could easily continue successfully for years.

Thanks again Desdinova... 100% True..... Unfortunately (and yes I expect to get flamed) the only people who seem to understand this are high value males who are capable of getting azz... Those that attack this without experience use their so called "morality" to substantiate their lack of meaning and accomplishment in their lives.

its strange how men have become women.

faithfulness is for women

men are supposed to cheat...the minute you as a man LOSE THE DESIRE TO FVCK A HOT PIECE OF AZZ AND ENDEAVOR TO DO SO you are no longer a man.

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

I agree.... how many married men do you see that are totally whipped by their wives....? They have no power at all in the relationship... I've seen too many of this in my lifetime and I swear I'll never become one.

That being said, I don't believe your significant other should ever have proof that you actually cheat.... you just need to convey to her that you are desirable to other women.

Now there is no doubt that cheating can destroy households and families... I don't dispute this at all. I think when this happens though its because of the insecurity the male has about the situation... or they are just idiots and get caught. You must never let your gf/wife/partner find out... I am sure we all have sordid fantasies we get off too... you keep them to yourself just like you do with your cheating. And you cheat smart... always put your family first and whats important.

This is not the hurt business fellas, just reality. I honestly feel that I know the truth about being a male and my gender's heterosexuality that this will make me a better person over all.


So now that I got that off my chest.. I welcome anyone to post "intelligent" responses/rebuttals... Again this is just what my perception of things are currently...

[PairPlusRoyalFlush]

women know this...they can only respect a man who can get another girl at a moments notice. this is why so many 'husbands' fail in the eyes of their wives and get cheated on.

Cheating for a woman is never justified unless there is abuse and is always unnatural especially if there are kids.

[Malice]

I have felt no need yet to cheat on my wife after 1 and a half years married. She is still a hot size 0. She gives sex whenever I want and cooks and cleans and also helps pay the bills.

Why would I cheat?

[Espi]

I personally think that many husbands and wives cheat--especially husbands.

It's also my opinion that most men are not biologically designed to be monotonous.

Men cheat--always have and always will.

Women always ask, "Can't you control yourself?" The answer is NO. Biology dictates.

That's one more reason, by the way, that I'm not married...the best way to avoid cheating is to not get married...and the best way to avoid divorce...is to not get married.