One particular untouched subject everyone seems to deal with is the aquard silence. Its been my theory lately those silent moments won't be so aquard if you don't let it be. Let me explain.

Women seem to be wonderful at guaging our comfort levels. Your talking to them and that silence comes up. Thinking every good DJ should keep the conversationg going ALL THE TIME you guys start to sweat it and girls sence that.

Don't run the women over by constantly trying to lead the convo. Don't waste those silent moments by trying to think of something to say about yourself. Women can tell when your trying to push something so don't try and push it. Just give them a nice smile and enjoy the silence... Be comfortable with it, don't let it be so aquard to you and it won't be so much to her.

The conversation isn't comming to an end. Your little silence won't end all your chances with her. Don't sweat it and she won't either. Now when you get back into the convo she'll give you clues as to what to bring up. JUST RELAX!!!! Don't sweat it.

The awkward silence is something I haven't yet had a problem with, nor had a problem with keeping the conversation running. The only way a girl's going to realize that you're trying to get her to keep going about herself is everytime if you end up going back to the same run of the mill questions asking her what she's doing or whatever.

just be interested in the conversation.

oh and btw...no offense but how old are you? your grammar/spelling is pretty awful.

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oOh Nasty

It’s really great posts.

I knew a genius-IQ woman who sometimes would go quiet, but she was really winding up to say something thoughtful. I had to learn to stop and let her talk.