last night i met some girl at a party and i went back to her apt. so all we did was just cuddle on the bed and i left halfway through the night. she walked me out and on the way out i was contemplating asking for her number but decided not to go for it becuz i just didnt care enough to get it(partly cuz i didnt have interest in continuing anything past this instance). The reason i didnt ask for her number wasnt because i was scared, in fact im very good at number closing. So I left to go back home. The next morning i check my fb and she has added me and just sent me a msg that says "i wish youd grow a pair and ask for my number." im kinda in shock that she would say something like that to me. i didnt have any intention of getting her number but now it makes me look bad that i didnt go for it even though i didnt want to. So how should i reply to her? never had this happen to me before. thanks guys
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what to say back to this girl? need help
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Your response, "What would I need your number for?"
Boom.
Boom.
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That sounds good. Or: "Um, why would I ask for your number?"Johnnyventana said:
The last two sound too rude to me.
