“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BearMan

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I have recently been dating a certain girl. She was my best friend from childhood (8-9 years old). When i approach her for the first time i was very confident, had a strong eye connection and i was very playful. I knew immediately I made a good impression on her. I was very attractive to her. I could tell that from her body language (playing with hairs and stuff like this).
She is alone, never had a boyfriend because of her shyness and anti social behaviour, she told me she hates people and basicaly spending most of the free time in home playing some games. Things were going rly nice for first two months, we went out for a nice walk. However after this walk things went wrong. I have made biggest error. I fell freaking fast in love with her. I generaly lost my mind. I stopped being a MAN... Things went worse and worse every day. I was basicaly over doing it. Although i still had some man habbits in me (for example when she pissed me off, I wasnt afraid to tell her what i think about her behaviour) this worked very well, I could tell that it was a good choice, after those little fights she wanted to talk with me, always said why she has done it, she was definitely happy that I came to talk with her. Unfortunately being in love blinded me completly. I was making same mistackes over and over again (2 months of insanly good releation ship and 1 month of complete failure). The thing is, she didnt get rid of me. She was giving me a chance. Told me that im pushing too hard. BUT I WAS SO FKING DUMB, I couldnt stop. The problem appeared recently. We had another fight, she again said i pushing way too hard. So i made an appointment with her. She agreed to go out with me next week, but i would give her a little break (I rly understand NOW how annoying I was). But being crazy as me i didnt last long and tried to talk with her, just a little chat, without any pushing and stuff (I finally realized it). Unfortunately she didnt know about that and well. She was pissed off and didnt even say a single word. It pissed me off aswell and I told her thing or two, including that its over and her behavior is **** as hell <lol>. I always had 2 alternatives so it didnt rly bother me that much, although i feel like she is THAT ONE.

So the question is... Should i wait few weeks or even month and talk to her but now behaving like a man she liked before I lost my mind or should I just forget about her ??

Im pretty good with women, one of other chicks I know, feel in love with me after like 4 meetings, I didnt even do anything special and other one wants me to come over to her home. Im not interested in those 2 girls.
After reading some articles on this site i bumped into stuff saying that this is gameover. I dont believe it. There isnt a single relationship that cannot be repaired. But that doesnt change fact that i need your help guys.

Btw. english isnt my native language and well I appreciate those who will read this wall of text.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

st_99

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I'm willing to bet she is impossible. The reason you started getting all crazy about her is because you sensed her fading away and that drew you closer and made you act a fool. That doesn't excuse your behavior but when I read this "she told me she hates people" BPD comes to mind. Idk, just a thought, I could be totally wrong.

"There isnt a single relationship that cannot be repaired" I think this is some beta thinking on your part.
 

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Pull way back, man. You're smothering her and being too clingy; it's like you were this cool guy that she liked and then you jumped out from the closet screaming "HEY I'M REALLY A GIANT WUSSY!".

Just chill out, pull back gradually, and show her less interest. And go for other girls. She'll eventually contact YOU and start making all the moves, but you NEED to pull back for a while.

And welcome to the forum, it looks like you're one of those few that actually read before creating threads. Now let's see if you're one of the even fewer that applies what he learns.
 

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with all honesty you should lay low. VERY LOW for some time. Let her come to you. Try to meet other women or hang out with friends or work on something to help you get through this.

I wouldn't even attempt to contact her. like i said let her come to you.
 

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st_99 said:
I'm willing to bet she is impossible. The reason you started getting all crazy about her is because you sensed her fading away and that drew you closer and made you act a fool. That doesn't excuse your behavior but when I read this "she told me she hates people" BPD comes to mind. Idk, just a thought, I could be totally wrong.

"There isnt a single relationship that cannot be repaired" I think this is some beta thinking on your part.
Fvck no. BPD is a bit more than push pull, mate.
 

BearMan

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Hmm Ill take your opinions into consideration. They certainly make a sense.
I cant believe I was so crazy about her.
Thanks for welcome.
 
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