1) Dress neatly and maintain impeccable hygeine.

2) Make her feel.

Make her feel what you want her to feel and she will become blind to your looks as she will rationalize her perception of you to align with her feelings.

Problem solved.

The only detriment to not-so-good looks is initial attraction. Specialize in making her feel, and that detriment will be neutralized.

perfectly said

wtf this is a short read lol

You need to explain in detail about the feel here.

Maximummax said:

You need to explain in detail about the feel here.

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Yours is the second most intelligent comment in this thread, second only to black jesus, who had me at "Hello"...

Ask your self, "What do I want her to feel?" Not think, but feel. We so often try to infuence in the realm of "thinking", but thinking is our domain. It is a language that they can't comprehend. Similarly, we have great difficulty comprehending their language, the lanuage of emotion.

It makes sense, because although babies and toddlers are very similar emotionally, at age 3 or so a boy quickly learns (subconsciously) that his life is going to have to entail the mastery of emotion. Little girls are allowed to let the emotional river flow all their lives, while boys must contruct dams, locks, and other devices to control the flow of emotion and to harness this wild beast to do his bidding. To the degree that a man harnesses his emotions, he will attain success in life, generally speaking.

Since women's perceptions of the world (and hence, YOU) are almost totally ruled by emotion, it behooves us to appeal to her emotions since that is her currency.

Leverage her imagination. Paint imaginary scenarios for her with you and her as the central characters. "Wouldn't it be great to be at Cancun right now? I can just imagine us sitting in our lounge chairs sipping drinks while that warm air is blowing over our bodies... What do you say we hop a plane right now and go down there?"

Always keep things mysterious. Make her pine to find out more about you. Only answer 20% of questions directly. The rest, give vague responses or no response at all.

Use innuendo in your speech. Always use words and phrases that can have a double-meaning. This sexualizes you.

Associate yourself with positive feelings. This is tricky because push-pull is very important. Make her happy, and make her furious. Emotion is chick crack, and as long as the good outweighs the bad she will be addicted to the very fact that you make her "feel".

In a nutshell, making her feel involves adding constant excitement, adventure and mystery into her life. All you need to do to rise above the betas is to be slightly different, just slightly better. The betas are boring and do not excite emotion in her.

Express ambition. Expressed ambition will always be equal to actual money in 95% of girls' eyes. Expressed ambition will incite all sorts of fantasies in her mind.

I haven't yet formularized my concepts of inciting emotion to counteract average looks, but the combination of being dressed slightly but noticably better than your competition, along with the knowledge that you have the power to incite emotion in her, is deadly.

Finally, learn from the magician. I don't mean do overt magic tricks. Study how magicians alter perception and see if you can incorporate into your game. You have the power to alter her perception of you. You just might not be aware of that.

Atom Smasher said:

Use innuendo in your speech. Always use words and phrases that can have a double-meaning. This sexualizes you.

This is something I'm not very good at. Can you provide some examples here to help reinforce exactly what you're getting at? When someone says innuendo to me, the my first thoughts are some form of visceral potty humor that would show up in an episode of Family Guy. That may be popular, but I feel like it's not only not my style, but I can do better than that.

Associate yourself with positive feelings. This is tricky because push-pull is very important. Make her happy, and make her furious. Emotion is chick crack, and as long as the good outweighs the bad she will be addicted to the very fact that you make her "feel".

Again, can you provide some examples here? Are you speaking here about establishing and breaking rapport? Like, first establish some strong bond of commonality - she loves dogs, you love dogs and you get really excited about it. But then she mentions she also loves cats and you hate cats with a passion that cannot be extinguished and let her know. Maybe even do a false takeaway. Is that what you're talking about here?

Express ambition. Expressed ambition will always be equal to actual money in 95% of girls' eyes. Expressed ambition will incite all sorts of fantasies in her mind.

This sounds to me like it's border on the fringes of DLVing yourself. I may not be thinking the same thing you are here, but expressing ambition for me would be something equivalent to saying I'm going to be a heart surgeon someday. Or I'm a semiprofessional musician. Stuff that would sound like "bragging", at least to me. I'm weary of even being straight with a girl about what I want to do with my life because they tend to either think I'm full of crap or become interested in me because they assume I am/will be rich.

Finally, learn from the magician. I don't mean do overt magic tricks. Study how magicians alter perception and see if you can incorporate into your game. You have the power to alter her perception of you. You just might not be aware of that.

I'm not sure what you mean here either. I've watched magicians before and they tend to distract their audience with red herrings to divert attention from what's really going on. That sounds like the essence of Mystery's indirect game.

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I'm about to hit the sack but I'll try to answer your questions.

Innuendo:
"That's a very penetrating question."
"Careful, you're going to blow it with me."
Avoid being overt. Her filthy mind will catch the innuendo with no problem. You must play completely innocent with zero indication that it was intentional. No sly smile, no nothing. Why, Because this way she will think that she is sexualizing you all on her own.

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No, it's not that deep. Just simply make sure she associates lots of good feelings with you, and once in a while infuriate her with your Alphaness. Enforce your rules dispassionately. Make sure she is delighted to see you, take her on an emotional roller coaster (a few ups and downs each session), and leave with her wanting more.

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Just the opposite. Ambition can be expressed in very matter-of-fact (non-bragging) terms. Orchestrate the conversation toward a philosophical bent, and express your dreams and ambitions, as if you're sharing a secret just between you and her. That secret stuff is powerfull in and of itself. A woman will almost always make an even exchange of actual money for expressed ambition in her mind. Women live in the land of fairy tales and unicorns. They are hugely turned on by verbally expressed ambition because they do not value reality, only the fantasy that you can provide them. Only the feelings (excitement about a possible future) matter to most. Expressed ambition internally ignites her like nothing else can. It is full of "anything can happen" possibility.

#4:
Don't try to "nuts and bolts" it too much. The magician knows that his power is in altering perception. While his act is scripted, yours is fluid and dependent upon evolving circumstances. The tiniest sigh, grunt, comment or facial expression can leverage mountains of thoughts and feelings inside of her when deployed at just the right split-second. This is a matter of experience and paying attention.

Appear and disappear. Have no form. Be indefinable. Cause her to look over there while you plant a seed here. I am purposely being vague here because this stuff must be discovered and not overtly taught.

Keep her constantly guessing about you, but then pepper that mystery with some genuine disclosure. Just like those cat toys on a string and a stick, once in a while you have to let the cat catch the toy, else she walks away.

The whole idea is that we need to throw logic out the window when it comes to communicating with women, as they feel extremely uncomfortable when confronted with logic. You can actually see them tense up and shut down. They hate it (reminds them of dad correcting them). All interactions should be from the standpoint of "How can I make her feel?"

Having said all that, of course in day-to-day life we need to be real and deal with the usual mundane things. All of the above are guidelines for piquing her curiosity and guiding her fantasies.

Atom Smasher, those are amazing tips. If you happen to have any links, other recommended reading, or any other tips on the subject of making a girl "feel", please feel free to post them. I could read that stuff all day.

I really don't have any outside sources. This is just stuff I've discovered by trial and error. See if Googling brings up anything worthwhile.