I really don't understand some guys.

a friend in our inner circle, had a pretty ****ty break up with a girl he has dated for a while. Not going to get too much into that. he did some AFC things, but more than anything I think the woman just was not relationship material, though I would not tell him that because he adores the girl


anyway, he's over my house *****ing about how his ex is going on dates and how it hurts and **** and how she's trying to get back at him.

i'm like, why are you still talking to her? he is like, I'm not talking to her I'm like how did you find all this **** out. he says "twitter"

I'm like dude, Why the hell are you follwoing your ex on twitter?


why the hell do you want to know every possible detail about your EX? the guy she is meeting, the guy she is about to get **** from.. hell I would consider myself very DJ ish and i don't even think i could put up with that **** on a day to day basis.

do you not think for one second your ex doesn't know exactly what she is doing when she makes those tweets? do you not think she knows that you are haning over every word she posts lol?

some guys will ***** about how women like to manipulate men and play games, but i'm saying, why are you even getting into the area in the first place? take the ball and go home. the only way she can have any power over you in that situation is if you give it to her by refusing to cut of all contact..

this is what we mean by it's mo re for you than it is to get her back. who gives a **** about getting a 30 year old, flabby armed lifelong bar slut back in your life. but you need to heal. You need to maintain a frame within yourself.

I actually made him unfollow her while he was over my house lol.


but more than anything, why would you be attracted to a woman who blurts her life out for everyone to see anyway? I mean I actually like twitter (And refuse to use facebook) and it has very practical uses. plus it's fun. But, the "look at me and my emotions at every single second", i just don't see it. it's very unbecoming.

unfortunately every guy has to learn the hard way before he can finally wake up.

agreed. problem is guys want to hang on to something, they may not be talking to her or seeing her but they keep some sort of connection: pictures, internet stalking, house drive by, talking to her friend, whatever.

man cut ALL that sh!t and like bb said, heal and become bigger, better, stronger and ready to take on anything a HB can throw at you.

Agree that you need to cut off all contact if the break up has affected you, but may not apply for all girls you get with.

Once you mature a bit and don't get attached to every girl who jumps on your ****, it is pretty easy to not need to go completely no contact, since you have happily already moved on yourself.

I've got several ex's (whether one nighters or several monthers) still as friends on facebook. Don't really care what they are doing, since I've moved on.

do not over complicate this post with advanced DJ tactics lol.


I talk to ex's all the time wel not all the time but. I usually am the one doing the breaking up these days and in that case I really don't give a damn what or who she is doing anymore. Plus I was plate spinning when I was single and even the girls that got tired of me for whatever th reason I seriously could care less i was too busy to care.

but this thread isn't for me. this thread is for the guys who are trying to get over someone who left them or who are still struggling with their inner AFC who wants to post about the great time on facebook to get under the girls skin and stuff like that


MOVE ON. cut it ALL off
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It's funny this particular thread was bumped today. There is a forum I visit for horse racing, horse peigress to0 be more specific. To make a long story short, before I met my wife, about 5 years ago, I dated a girl off this forum. we actually dated. pretty chill girl. And it was more than just a few fvcks. we actually dated seriously for almost a year. lol off and on, we had some knock down drag out battles but we dated and I'd be lying if I said I didn't like her a little

well, one day i realized, she was bat**** crazy. she got sick, she is a Type A diabetic, and beucase I had something come up on thanksgiving and could not go with her to Louisiana to meet her mom for thanksgiving, and she ate too much **** and ended up in a comma in the hospital, she blamed me for it.. like seriously blamed me for it. For a few days I actually felt bad, you know she was really sick. then as the days went on i said you know what.. fvck this ****, i don't need her, and i didn't' do antyhing wrong by sticking home for thanksgiving. this girl has serious issues. so i broke it off. we got back together liek a month later only for me to break it off for good a week later. it just wasn't going to work.

Anyway, it's so cute. we still both post under the same forum. Most people there knew we dated. But neither of us airs our ddirty laundry on the forum. We have both moved on, she might make a crack about me or i might make a crack about her but it's all in good fun. But, it's just so cute because I won't call her, or return her emails, or be a twitter or facebook friend she just follows me around on the forum responding to everything I write just to try to get me to respond. When I mentioned on the forum I was looking to buya horse she called me out the blue, actually a few days striaght trying to get me on the phone to try to work a deal. Then when I found a horse I wanted to buy she called me again to try to get me to let her work the deal out. Basically just using an in to get in contact with me.

That girl, still lol, wants my attention in the worst way. she knows she fvcked up. But I also know she's bat**** crazy.

then like, we can be talking about the most horse racing aspect of horse racing, nothing to do with anything personal and she will respond ad somehow fit in how her nefw Bf thinks this or how she went on a date and thought that. if i gave a **** it would drive me from leaving the forum but I don't.