If a girl doesn't feel that chemistry or has feelings for you, is it still possible to have sex regardless?

She did say to me that the guys she's been involved with recently she knew there was no future but 'well we're 2 attractive single people there's nothing wrong with getting together and having fun.. i'm sure you do the same thing.'

at this time i was looking at her as potential LTR material and it kinda put me off that she'd go around sleeping around whereas she's making me wait for sex to evaluate if she will have feelings for me.. i failed that test, she wanted to see if i was jealous plus also did i have respect for her for being sexually active.

We're going to hang out now like we've been doing but i sense maybe she's trying to friend zone me in the long term, so i've made it clear that we're not hanging out as friends..

i anticipate the drink i'm going with her she may invite someone else to come along.. maybe a guy.. or surprise me with this news when i greet her.

if she does i plan to walk away and be like 'ok cool you go see your friend, i'm gona go get laid'

and walk off.. is this going to backfire?

i dont want to get into a d1ck swinging contest with some other guy who is in love with her fighting over some girl, that pedestals her and makes her a prize.

my idea is in hope that she may panic and beg me to stay.. or it may backfir and she'll just go see that other guy and think im a loser for not wanting to compete.

Without "chemistry," she won't F you. My sense is you are already very close to friendzone if not there already. I say this because girls don't usually share "hookup war stories" with a guy they want to date. Talking about your s@x life is something friends do. If she wanted to date you or at least keep you as FWB, she wouldn't risk turning you off by mentioning F-ing other guys.

I agree that you don't need to get into a "sword fight" with another dude. Even if you "win," that would still be beta in a sense because it puts her on a big pedistal.

If you aren't interested in being friends with her, then by all means leave if she brings someone, especially a dude. Telling her you're going to get going is fine. Telling her you're gonna go get laid sounds tryhard. She'll know it's BS. Even if it's true, bragging to a female that you're gonna get some is weak. She should figure out on her own that you're b@nging chicks.

Of course, she will beg you to explain WHY you left. You can go no contact and dump her a$s, without explanation. Or flat out tell her, I thought the plan was for just the two of us to hang out, not bring fri

friends. (Formatting SS posts on the ifone is a pain lol.)