Hey guys..

I have ben talking to this girl for a while. I met her before the summer and I have tried to make some moves on her like do some kino when she was at my house lying in my bed.

The problem is that one of her friends have liked me and I fooled around with her for a little time, nothing serious and these two girls have known each other for a while and talk regulary.

As time went on I just thought what the heck and told her that I would love to have her my way (Dont know if this was a mistake) but I invited her to my place the following day I told her that and did some kino on her.. I did not go for a kiss even though my gut told me do it.. Wussed out and she let me carres her the whole time....

So stupid I am I wrote to her the next day that I really wanted to kiss her and she told me it was not a great idea because of her friend. I just thouht **** this and acted indifferent about the whole thing and asked if she wanted to come over at my place again. She agreed and again I wussed out on trying to kiss her...

Its now ben 1 week and 3 days since she was at my house and we havent had any contact until today because I just thought she not was interested in me more than friends so I just let i go..

Today she wrote to me; Hey Luke, hows you week?
Im confused. Maybe I am overanalyzing and hoping she wants to be more.. However insight on this would be great.

Sorry for the long read.

*edit* when I did some kino on her ass second time she was at my house she would slap my hand, however she would let me kino on her stomach, back, head etc.

What's the question?

The question would be;

Should I pursue this anymore further? And what would an appropriate answear be to her text? just be indifferent to it?

You're being a *****. It seems like you're trying to convince yourself of not needing to kiss her in order to keep this going. You should've just gone for it dude! Feels bad not to do something out of fear. Take this as a lesson.

However, it's not over yet, so just answer her, chill with her and actually go for the kiss. Don't ask her, just do it.

hehe.. I wanted somebody else to tell you that first part Norwegian mentioned. Don't be offended cause he is right. Be a man... and don't do what I used to.. don't make rocket science out of it.

You can mentain her interest for so long by doing the same thing.
Do what your you WANT. Just go for it and don't worry about stupid s***.

Thanks! This is just what I needed to hear! I textedit back and fourth and er arranged to be prom dates and chill at my place. This time I an going for the kiss atleast.. Thankd again guys. Will Update in nearest furture.

Remember that kissing her at the end of the date puts a lot of pressure on you. Try to kiss her within 30 minutes. Grab her hand within 10.

If you're scared of getting rejected on the kiss, spend a lot of time with your faces really close with eyecontact. Girls trance out and she probably won't move away.

I am seeing her tonight at her place. I would like to mention that this girl barely have any sexual experience, she has kissed before but not anything beyond that. So we'll see how it goes.