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Hey guys, not sure if anyone's been reading my college approach journal, but I need some advice on a situation that I posted in there.

So there's this girl I go to school with that I've been friends with since we were 14 let's call her stephanie. Over the summer we got drunk one night and wound up making out. We had never even kissed before, but she was really into it. I didn't really care, I was just kind of drunk and horny lol.

Well, this happened a few more times afterward. We went on a camping trip together with a bunch of friends 2 weeks later, and after the camping trip she told me that "we should stop doing this". I said to her "If you want to that's fine, just remember I said our friendship's not going to change over this so I still wanna see and hangout with you. No worries."

Stephanie would text me to hangout but I was really busy after that trip we all took, I didn't really have a lot of free time and I started seeing another girl. I brought the girl out one night with our group of friends.. Stephanie seemed really jealous. I didn't really care and just acted friends with her.

After this night, Stephanie went out of the country to see family for about 3 weeks, meanwhile I broke off things with that other girl cause they seemed to be going nowhere. I also met this other girl (Let's call her Jill) at a bar.

Stephanie comes back and I tell her to come to a concert my band's playing. She comes out, I told her about Jill and she seemed cool about it. The night ends and we all go off in seperate directions.. Then I get a text from Stephanie..

"Come over"

So I went over her house to crash after the concert since she lived closer than I did. We wound up making out again and she asks me to come into her bedroom.

I sort of felt bad, cause I was talking to that Jill girl and she seemed like a really awesome girl. I told her I couldn't and I would just sleep on the couch. Left the next day without saying bye. I broke things off with Jill 1 week ago.

Now Stephanie and I are back in school together, she sorta acts like my girlfriend at school even though she mentioned to me before how she didn't want to do a relationship. Whatever, I didn't really care. But the other day a really hot HB9 approached me and talked to me.. And stephanie comes out of nowhere to hug me. The HB9 walks away and Stephanie says "She just wanted an excuse to talk to you I bet she thinks you're cute". I said back "Yeah probably, girls chat me up all the time it gets kinda annoying after a while". We joke around some more and she invites me over this weekend.

I just don't get what this girl wants. She doesn't want to hook up or anything, but she doesn't want to see me talking to other girls and gets super jealous. Any advice here?
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
Hey guys, not sure if anyone's been reading my college approach journal, but I need some advice on a situation that I posted in there.

So there's this girl I go to school with that I've been friends with since we were 14 let's call her stephanie. Over the summer we got drunk one night and wound up making out. We had never even kissed before, but she was really into it. I didn't really care, I was just kind of drunk and horny lol.

Well, this happened a few more times afterward. We went on a camping trip together with a bunch of friends 2 weeks later, and after the camping trip she told me that "we should stop doing this". I said to her "If you want to that's fine, just remember I said our friendship's not going to change over this so I still wanna see and hangout with you. No worries."

Stephanie would text me to hangout but I was really busy after that trip we all took, I didn't really have a lot of free time and I started seeing another girl. I brought the girl out one night with our group of friends.. Stephanie seemed really jealous. I didn't really care and just acted friends with her.

After this night, Stephanie went out of the country to see family for about 3 weeks, meanwhile I broke off things with that other girl cause they seemed to be going nowhere. I also met this other girl (Let's call her Jill) at a bar.

Stephanie comes back and I tell her to come to a concert my band's playing. She comes out, I told her about Jill and she seemed cool about it. The night ends and we all go off in seperate directions.. Then I get a text from Stephanie..

"Come over"

So I went over her house to crash after the concert since she lived closer than I did. We wound up making out again and she asks me to come into her bedroom.

I sort of felt bad, cause I was talking to that Jill girl and she seemed like a really awesome girl. I told her I couldn't and I would just sleep on the couch. Left the next day without saying bye. I broke things off with Jill 1 week ago.

Now Stephanie and I are back in school together, she sorta acts like my girlfriend at school even though she mentioned to me before how she didn't want to do a relationship. Whatever, I didn't really care. But the other day a really hot HB9 approached me and talked to me.. And stephanie comes out of nowhere to hug me. The HB9 walks away and Stephanie says "She just wanted an excuse to talk to you I bet she thinks you're cute". I said back "Yeah probably, girls chat me up all the time it gets kinda annoying after a while". We joke around some more and she invites me over this weekend.

I just don't get what this girl wants. She doesn't want to hook up or anything, but she doesn't want to see me talking to other girls and gets super jealous. Any advice here?
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Bro, from my point of view, stephanie had a long friendship with you, that mean she felt something for u. When u 2 started to have a physicall ''relationship'' it affect her feellins for u in 1 way or another, i'm not saying she want u as a boyfriend(but she can) but is normal to her to be jealous, is natural that she doesnot want to see you with someone else cuz that would mean u found someone better than her. If i were you i would wait a little more before doing anything, and when i felt the situation was clear for me i would let the situation very clear for her. Just dont be preciptated.
Sorry if my english is bad, i'm not american.
 
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Umm, she did actually want to hook up when she invited you into her bedroom!

Now you need to make the move since you rebuffed her sex overture.
 
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Her actions are clearly of a girl who didn't want you when you weren't getting attention but now that you are she's jealous as hell and recognizes your value.

When a girl says come over late at night it means she's down. When you are making out ans she says that she wants you to go into her bed room it means she wants your hog.

You have to do something with her i.e hit it or quit it becuase otherwise she'll c-block you as illustrated by what happened when the HB9 walked up.
 
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Yeah, I'm hanging with her tomorrow night at some party. I'm gonna try and bang her. Probably just start making out and we'll eventually go back to her room. I just gotta remember to not drink TOO much so I can get it in.
 
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Well tonight went well.. Except there was no opportunity to close the deal. It was a really tough situation. Here's how it goes.

I was hanging with the girl tonight and we made out a few times at some party things were great. She asked me to come back to her place, so I said OK. But I was with my buddy and he needed to be back home and head to the airport tomorrow morning so I had to give him a ride back. Fvcking sucks cause I'd probably be getting laid by now, but she understood the whole situation and was cool about it. She even said she loves me tonight.

But you know how it is with people, saying something doesn't mean sh1t. But I really believe this girl meant it. We've practically seen each other grow up and we've always had a thing for each other, but who knows man. I just believe in the best... But I'm always ready for the worst at this point.
 
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