Hi,

I've been reading this site for the last couple of years and implementing all the rules. I've been quite successful but of late I'm stuck with a hottie. She is a 9 and always used to be pampered until she met me. I kinda ended her every call, and email interaction and chat transcripts and was fully in control. I touch her, flirt with her and do all that but of late she's taken it offensive me ending her calls and messages. Now, even before I end the discussion she makes it a point to end it first. We are still attracted together and she's become a bit conscious about my behavior. I'm unable to take it to next level. Any help at this point it time will help a lot. Please suggest. The relationship had just started and she's quite attracted to me. I call her by so many pet names and she is very comfortable. Please help.

Best,
Braveheart.

have u kissed her?

When you begin to give importance to her looks, you automatically lose value in her eyes. Treat her as if she was ugly, at least for one day so you can notice the difference. Really, try it. If you're not willing to to try this it means you're not willing to risk losing her. If you can not risk losing her you WILL lose her.

You went to a point where she is trying to learn your game.
Did you escalated to kiss? F close?

Hi,

Thanks for all your replies. I haven't kissed her so far and as suggested I will treat her as if she's ugly. I will risk losing her. BTW, I want to tell you both of us are married. She is 38 and I'm also 38 and we both have kids. We are both comfortable with each other. She respects me a lot. I adore her a lot.

Any more suggestiong would be of great help.

Best,

Was this an arranged marriage?

What do you find wrong with your wife?

Yes, it was an arranged marriage. People who describe me say I'm one of the best human beings, in my office i'm a lot respected and this includes the office boys. I find my wife is a below average woman who thinks of punishing the husband. I don't believe in this and also my wife is short on temper. She is a zero learner and I find we are poles opposite. I tried a lot helping her but like these website gurus say it's difficult to change some people. There are lots of bandwidth issues, we talk on a different scale altogether. I tried to see if I'm wrong from my side but after a lot of introspection I sensibly took a balanced decision that I have given my best.

On the other side, the lady in whom I'm interested is someone exactly what I wanted. Always learning and helping people and keeping oneself busy and a great attitude. I'm quite like that. She is also drawn to me. Any more help?

Best,