I changed before because of girls.. like changing my opinions or my hairstyle.. anyway:
Today I was just chilling with my classmates outside at break.
Girls in my class were talkin' about guys and stuff.. ( you know how that goes).
Then.. one of them told me and one of my friends something like:
- Some of our "boys" ( classmates) are a little.... I mean you didn't have a girlfriend and you dindn't have a girlfriend. I never seen you trying to get girls [ and then deviated to my friend something not interesting].

Damn guys, it hit me. As simple and basic as it sounds.. she was honest and she was right.

As someone said.. We see what we want to see. I just didn't see it.

I realised I gotta do something already..
I would say get on top of my game, but damn.. I don't have a game.

So from today.. I've got to built a game and be damn good at it cause if I never play I can never win.
Now I'm talkin... kino, eye c, approaches, interesting convo, asking.. showing interest, guts... ALL IN.

Because I was "blind" but now I see I want you to say welcome to me

Game on, brothers!:yes:

Its a good starting point but at the end of the day you're still changing based on what someone else has said. In other words, someone else has done something to change the way you live your life. I believe to be truly motivated you have to do something for yourself and by yourself otherwise in a few weeks time, what that girl said to you will drift away, the emotions of the situation will evaporate and you'll be seeking a new external source to give you the incentive to improve. Thats why I dont ask for advice on here because at the end of the day, no matter what anyone tells you to do, you have to do it yourself. Writing blogs and journals are helpful but if you cant do it without it, you dont have the real desire in your belly. Thats what i think the difference between great and extraordinary.

Take what this girl said to you as a lesson but dont dwell on it too much. Do what you want to do because a thousand guys will tell you a thousand different ways of doing things and they might all work for the individual. But do what feels right with you, like i hate using routines and doing anything that isnt genuine. So my game comes purely from my gut instinct not some scripted routine and i feel so much better because im doing it how i want to, so i cant lose. But this is about you and you alone, do whatever it takes, but do it yourself.

Pozitron said:

- Some of our "boys" ( classmates) are a little.... I mean you didn't have a girlfriend and you dindn't have a girlfriend. I never seen you trying to get girls

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You don't want to appear to other girls that you're trying to get girls, in my opinion. It should just be something that happens naturally, with your game and ability giving it a much higher success rate.
That's how I view this whole thing, anyways. It's hard to tell what my life will be like in 10 years, but I really don't see myself going to clubs to pick up girls. Just meeting girls naturally and using what I've learned here to win them over.

Thanks a lot. You really changed my perspective. That's the way I should look and do things..