I would like to ask a question as a "thinker" more so then anything. Something for you to chew over and seriously think about.

"What does it take to be a man?"

That's the question I propose, I look forward to reading the reactions.

Until next time. :wave:

You must be fearful, but not scared, wherever you go. It's like swimming long distances alongside big great white sharks. You're too focused on the mission to notice the sharks which could easily have you as diner if they wanted to.

It's often said that men aren't as emotional as women. I disagree. We just are and/or have to be better at controlling it.

Having said that, being a man is about "controlling the inner demons" i.e. fears, negative emotions/thinking. Plus, it's about completing your mission i.e. what needs to be done, in spite of the cr*p that is in our heads at the time.

I agree with Poonani though. We should never seek to ELIMINATE fears. That's why I said we should control it instead. Whether you are dealing sharks, electricity, or anything potentially dangerous, some fear is essential and should be converted to a healthy caution.

a willingness to stand apart and live up to your own standards as opposed to going along with what society wants you to be

To hide your emotions and get the job done, To strive to work hard and be the best at what you do.

To accept the fact that you are a prize even though women can do without you. That you really are not a prize...but believe that you are to stay afloat.

To build a brick wall around your soul as you feel it slowly crumbling down...continue to lay up your bricks as it crumbles.

There is a reason why there is a book called "Men cry in the dark"..it is what we are supposed to do........

Well said. +1

women haze said:

To hide your emotions and get the job done, To strive to work hard and be the best at what you do.

To accept the fact that you are a prize even though women can do without you. That you really are not a prize...but believe that you are to stay afloat.

To build a brick wall around your soul as you feel it slowly crumbling down...continue to lay up your bricks as it crumbles.

There is a reason why there is a book called "Men cry in the dark"..it is what we are supposed to do........

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Awesome answers.

Replace fear with respect.

A willingness to consistently face my challenges, to continue on my path regardless of fear or doubt, and to live my life in an ethical and conscious way.