“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This Girl flirts with me, but has boyfriend

bdieu

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I approached this girl the other day and got her phone number...i soon found out that she has a boyfriend, and she tells me afterward too....im not in the "friend zone" since i use kino on her and she gets really close to me (physically) and she flirts with me also she smiles everytime she sees me......i want to date this girl but she says that she doesnt know me enough to drop her old boyfriend for me.

the question is...should i continue flirt and talk to this girl untill she breaks up with her old boyfriend ? (because i really intend to go out with this chick)

what the Don Quan way of handling this situation?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I had a similar situation. In my journal she is referred to as HB Amanda, I was able to make out with this chick on 3 separate occasions while she had a boyfriend, though we never ended up going out. She also lied about not having a boyfriend while we were doing this.

Sounds like YOUR chick wants you as a backup in case she loses her man. Game a different chick until that one changes for you, if not, she isn't worth it.
 

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THis happened to me , she gave me so many IOIs but then just wanted to be friends the whole time apparently , so I basically said the **** with her
 

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Hes right

SoSly said:
THis happened to me , she gave me so many IOIs but then just wanted to be friends the whole time apparently , so I basically said the **** with her
SoSly , it just happened
 
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