There is this pretty hot girl in my driving school that I've had my eye on for the past week now, but could not get the balls to approach. The only time I can possibly approach her is during lunch, when were allowed to go out to a fastfood joint or w/e, but shes always with two of her friends, a guy and a girl. I know for a fact that the guy isn't dating her so I'm assuming shes fair game.

I actually followed my classmates advice and sent her a note saying "Im bored, entertain me" but she kind of looked at it and didn't respond, although I'm pretty sure she might have thought that it was my class mate who sent it. I'm wondering If this is a sign of rejection.

I'm and AFC so I have no idea how I could open a 3 set and escalate with the girl. I've talked to one of my friends who a PUA and he told me that I should go up to them and open with "Hi, Im ..." and let the conversation flow from there. To me that opener seems kind of awkward and creepish especially when used in a high school setting.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I forgot to mention that there is another girl who is fairly attractive and actually has no friends in the class. Whenever me and my friends go out to 711 or Wendys for our 30 minute lunch break, I always see her go somewhere by herself. I was actually planning on straying from my friends and approaching her but I have no idea what I would say. I was thinking something along the lines of, "Hey, I'm .... I noticed you're alone, so I just wanted to come and say hello".

Well your sending a note idea was dumb IMO lol.
And just walking up and saying hi and introducing yourself can be quite effective if you have a strong frame and good energy, if u just awkwardly walk up it will most likely make the whole experience awkward. It really is mostly just about your energy. Early on in my gaming career, I would down a Monster energy drink before sarging lol, it really did make a difference. With good energy, openers hardly matter.
What I would do in your situation is just **** around a bit with ur friends in class (enough for her to notice your energy, but not too much as you get in trouble) then make your way and introduce yourself to the guy in her group and get cool with him. Then while ur talking to him just make eye contact with the target and be like "hi! I'm yaddayadda." and shake her hand. Then go from there

This IMO would be the easiest way. But if you absolutely have no time to talk in class and u need to cold open the set, then just ball up and say hi

WTF a NOTE dude?!? Are you serious, are you f*cking kidding me you gave her a motherf*cking note are we in 2nd grade here? Actually I don't think I ever dealt with chump-ass notes even in grade school

Here's what you do

Step 1: Stop taking gay ass advice from your homo friends

Step 2: Go up to that girl, and tell her, "I HATE you"

If she's really hot, and you say it in the correct, playful manner, she should reciprocate and appreciate a fun guy, not acting like the average dude complimenting here (or sending her phaggy-time 'notes') and she SHOULD start some form of conversation


ANYTHING, anything you can do to get a conversation going.

"Hey that teacher of ours is pretty creepy/cool/hot/weird, huh?"

"I'm going to the fastfood joint, I've got absolutely no idea on what to get, minding helping me out?"

Don't be wussy and supplicative when speaking to her. Also as a disclaimer, you don't need to take my advice and tell her you hate her, I've actually only done that a handful of times and it only worked because I followed up with some solid game

I also don't believe she rejected you, because in order for her to do that she'd have to know that you actually exist


Actually one thing I really like to tell girls, hell everyone, is "I had a dream about you last night. In my dream, my mission was to kill you,"

I knew an awesome guy in HS, Max, back when I was a Junior. He was like my big brother, and this guy, in my opinion was clear cut alpha male. Just radiated in every sense, but was also a cool genuine dude. I'm in a new school this year, being a Senior like him, and when talking to people I try to emulate him a little

So don't worry about saying stupid stuff, just keep a great positive attitude, keep yourself in the zone; this advice doesn't hold weight being said, however, it's your job to put it into action

It's been nice being natural to a guy.be a man to her.Don't keep telling others on what to do?
Just be by your self.

nesblu said:

...but could not get the balls to approach.

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...Are you a dude? If you are, you kinda all ready have testicles. Grab them and go approach her. It really is that simple.