Married womans field report. +1 for Mrs.5string!

[5string]

OK guys, this is good. At least I thought so.

Sat night. Take the Mrs. out for dinner to a rather upscale restaurant. It's the kind of place you should get dressed up for. Mrs.5string is wearing a green summer dress and heels. She's smokin! I have on grey slacks and a navy blue polo. Somewhat casual.

The place is fvckin crowded but we manage to find a place that the bar. We order dinner n drinks. We are sitting there and some guy sits down next to me to my left. Good looking guy about 30 I would guess. Has his buds stuck in his ears and hooked up to a smart phone. Now keep in mind that this guy is 20 yrs younger than us if not more.

I have to use the restroom and excuse myself. After I'm done, I see a friend and talk to him for 3-4 min. Then I come back to where Mrs.5string is and the guy is gone. I didnt think anything of it really. So I ask the wife "where did that guy go"?

wife:He took off. I think I embarrased him.
me:Why? What did you do?
wife:Well, the guy had been sitting over there leering at me and looking at my boobs. The guy says to me "would you be interested in a little extra in life on the side"?

Now keep in mind that I never heard this or noticed him taking an interest in her but this is how she responded according to her.

wife: No, I'm fine. My husband just fvcked me on the barstool (I didnt) in the kitchen before we left for dinner, and I'm pretty sure he's going to fvck me again when we get home!

After that, he left.

+1 honey.

[Colossus]

Awesome.

[samspade]

That's nice work, Mrs. 5String. We should all be so lucky.

[Danger]

Ha that's awesome.

I don't doubt that you rewarded her with action on said barstool when you got home!

[5string]

Ha that's awesome.

I don't doubt that you rewarded her with action on said barstool when you got home!She was rewarded, just not on said barstool.

When she decides to get after somebody, she doesnt pull any punches. She continues to surprise me. Think about it though. She's been stared at, oggled, hit on and otherwise lusted after her entire life. All good looking women have. She'd apparently had enough so she lit his a$$ up.

112 lbs of dynamite.

[vatoloco]

Hahaha! That's awesome!

[speed dawg]

Nice to see good women still around. It's amazing the effect that good men can have on women.

[samspade]

Nice to see good women still around. It's amazing the effect that good men can have on women.

That's a great point. You have to give as much credit to 5String as to his wife. Of course, she's a good woman. But maintaining frame is always at least 50% of keeping a good woman good. There are no doubt plenty of women out there, with pushover boyfriends or husbands, who would entertain the offer for "something on the side," or at least give the guy an opportunity to continue his pitch. Mrs. 5String shut the guy down in part because she's (I'm sure) a quality woman, but also because she's with a quality guy.

A few years back, Jophil (RIP) and Str8up used to lock horns over whether the "quality woman" was real or a male fantasy. It was a spirited debate, but the truth is probably somewhere in between. You sort out the quality women from the poor ones through your own qualifying. If you want to keep them around, you do so by maintaining frame.

[5string]

Good words samspade.

All women have their faults. No question about that. But one thing Mrs.5string is......is faithful. She's not lacking for action. I don't mean to brag here, but I hit it probably 8-10 times per week, honestly. Not bad for an ol geezer.

Anyway, she just got fed up and put the barfly in his place bigtime. Gotta say though, he had a pair of nuts to make a direct hit on her when I was nearby. I'm sure he just bailed thinking that my wife would tell me what had happened while I was in the restroom. Good move on his part.

[DJDamage]

Think about it though. She's been stared at, oggled, hit on and otherwise lusted after her entire life. All good looking women have. She'd apparently had enough so she lit his a$$ up.

She did lit his ass alright, many women play the 'passive game' where they don't directly acknowledge they aren't interested in the interloper thus encouraging him to continue giving them attention.

Now I remember dating an attractive attention wh0re bpd girl before and she got hit on all the time and did play the 'passive game'. The one thing I disliked was her informing me from time to time how men hit on her and ask her out on dates and some even proposed marriage to her. In this case would you prefer your woman to tell you everything or for her not to tell you if she got hit on for your sanity sake?! Do you believe it’s also a tactic used by women (telling her man about being hit on by other men) in order to manipulate him?!

[5string]

DJDamage

I don't think she would have told me had I not asked where AFC boy went. Personally I would rather not know. Especially since she can handle herself anyway.

I would say that some use it as a tactic in order to raise their perceived self esteem in order get more attention from their BF/husband. Maybe it's a female mindset where they imagine they'll demonstrate higher value by announcing that they have been hit on.

[Atom Smasher]

112 lbs of dynamite.

And the Mrs? :D

[cordoncordon]

Sounds great 5stringer. Sounds like a keeper.

Now, how about a pic? :)

[Victory Unlimited]

Yo 5String

Your choice of ally (wife) continues to IMPRESS, my man.

Any woman who would be so bold in her rejection of another guy's attention PROVES that she's satisfied with the choice of man that she's already made (5String). Most women of lower caliber (and definitely those women with lower level "passion for their men) would have at least flirted a bit and basked in the secret, DISRESPECTFUL attention that she was getting from the other man.

Which brings to mind a larger issue:

Where I come from, it's "no harm no foul" when a guy makes a move on a "single" woman who's out and about, and being chatted up by various other guys in a public place.

However, when a woman is clearly with another guy-------and especially if it happens to be obvious that the other guy is her husband (wedding rings evident, etc.), then that player-type guy puts himself at risk if he STILL chooses to make a move on her.

In fact, I've personally seen quite a few dumb-ass guys try to make a move on women who are obviously "taken", and the outcomes ain't been pretty.

There's nothing funnier than watching a would-be "player" get his ass whooped, kicked, and handed back to him with EXTREME prejudice--------by that woman's man who just happened to "catch him in the act".

Some of the Funniest Fights I've ever seen...:crackup:

[BlackwaterPark]

The measure of a good woman is if she'll break up with you before ****ing around. No amount of morals and ethics can keep a woman attracted to chump behavior. maybe 40 years ago you could expect a woman to stay married and faithful to a guy who makes her cringe, but not these days. Is Mrs. 5string a "good" woman? I don't think this episode reveals too much. Even whorish women(to some degree) can be kept in line by a high status guy who acts right To know that we'd need to see howd she react to 5string being a beta chump. Would she dump him or live off him while entertaining offers from guys like this?

[zekko]

No amount of morals and ethics can keep a woman attracted to chump behavior
Why should a woman be attracted to chump behavior?

[Victory Unlimited]

Why should a woman be attracted to chump behavior?

Zekko and BlackwaterPark,

Something interesting for men to keep in mind is that the definition of "chump behavior" can differ based on both the woman and the man in question-------AND also the situation within which they're engaging each other.

Chump Behavior can actually be a variety of things. But one thing all those behaviors tend to have in common is that whatever the behavior is that that man happens to be exhibiting------it's NOT something that encourages or inspires that woman to RESPECT him.

Then, when her lack of respect manifests itself, THAT'S when certain kinds of women will start thinking of the guy in question as LESS of a man and MORE of as just a tool for her to use for whatever purpose she desires.

[Kailex]

5string, thanks for the awesome read. I hope all is well with you! :yes:

[Zarky]

As long as she didn't say it while whispering in his ear and rubbing his arm.

[5string]

As long as she didn't say it while whispering in his ear and rubbing his arm.Actually Zarky, I wish she would have. A little more sugar on the doughnut would have really put AFC boy in his place.